"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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probably an easy one for anyone with game

legomydago

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this girl and i have been close for a couple years now, fooled around a few times never any sex...i didnt see her all summer untill the other day..over the summer she fell in love with some guy on vacation in aruba and is head over heels for him....we got together the other night, had a great night at a bar, alone just having some drinks and real good convo..playful touch, amazing connection etc...then she whispered in my ear that she really wanted to kiss me, ..but couldnt because she is with this guy....i got immediately turned off but tried to play it cool...she noticed i was a little different in demeanor tho...pretty much went home after that and havent talked to her in a couple days now...how should i approach this situation from now on....any advice is appreciated
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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that was a s*** test. Respond, "I won't tell" back in her ear, kiss her and escalate it yourself.... or simply kiss her without responding verbally. The boyfriend she fell in love with is 100% her problem, not yours.

Besides if the guy is still in aruba, aruba has another name; BFE.

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You whisper in her ear "like this?", and slowly move your lips over and give her a god damn knock out kiss.
 
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"how should i approach this situation from now on."

You shouldn't...you should approach more girls.

10 a week is the min.
40 a month.

Go...don't say another word.

Oh and I forgot
:rockon:
Rock On
 
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