here's the story...there's that friend of mine he's my best friend ever and he's been with me in all my classes since nursery uptill high shool...that guy has a got a twin sis....i dont see her oftenly but when i do she like humiliating me like hell...calling me a thing...telling my friends let go have some drink without him when we go out in grroups(when i see her usually its a whole groups of my friends and she's included...ps i wouldnt prefer dont go wherever she is as an answer).last time she kept doing the normal humiliation thing but she used her hands to pull my jacket upwards u know in a very humiliating manner.NB:she TOTALLY isn't neggin or playing hard to get or that **** u dont imagine what she does....i dont wanna tell my friend to let her straighten up with me as she might say that i cant stand up for myself...not only to her self but to the group and maybe in my presecence too...or ask her why she's doin that (AFC)...i ofcourse wont be mean to her cuz shes my friend's sis which could cause something between me and my friend u know...what im thinking of is when i call my friend at his home and she answers the phone i tell her that i dont like her behaviour towards me and that she has to change it...otherwise not talk to me again.so what do you think guys???
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
prob with my best friend's sis who keeps humiliating me....
- Thread starter kidman
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
She is doing sh!t like that because you've been a pushover from day one. B!tches want to see how far they can push the envelope. Unless you put your foot down, she's gonna keep on pushing.
Next time she pulls some sh!t, be firm and just go "What b!tch, you wanna suck my c*ck?" and put her in her f*cking place.
Next time she pulls some sh!t, be firm and just go "What b!tch, you wanna suck my c*ck?" and put her in her f*cking place.
she's my friend's sis and i dont wanna let anything happen between me and him hes been my friend since i was 3 years old...by the way i forgot to say that when she does this humiliation i ignore her completely and she keeps on and i tried to make it a laughing matter but nothing changes
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
It doesnt matter if she is mother theresa herself. Bottom line is, she is disrespecting you. I don't know about you, but I value myself and I wouldnt let some b!tch go on like that. Without your dignity you can just shave your nuts, tuck your d!ck between your legs and cluck.
At least tell her brother to talk to her if you're scared of confrontation.
At least tell her brother to talk to her if you're scared of confrontation.
taiwanesedude227
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Dude... she is dissing you like mad, it doesn't matter if she's your friend's sister. I agree with what the guy above said, diss her back twice as hard and don't put up with her ****. Diss her, make everyone else laugh at her, show her that she can't kick you around without getting verbally smacked down.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
i'd let your friend know that his sis is crossing the line, and it's about to stop. make sure he's ok with it.
then let her know, this crap stops right here right now.
when she crosses the line again, make her regret it. you're 19 ffs.
then let her know, this crap stops right here right now.
when she crosses the line again, make her regret it. you're 19 ffs.
**** your friend. Whats more important to you being respected or keeping a friendship? If you're willing to be stripped out of your diginity then just sit there and take her ****, but if u want to be a respected individual sometimes you have to risk valuable things, even friendships.