here's the story...there's that friend of mine he's my best friend ever and he's been with me in all my classes since nursery uptill high shool...that guy has a got a twin sis....i dont see her oftenly but when i do she like humiliating me like hell...calling me a thing...telling my friends let go have some drink without him when we go out in grroups(when i see her usually its a whole groups of my friends and she's included...ps i wouldnt prefer dont go wherever she is as an answer).last time she kept doing the normal humiliation thing but she used her hands to pull my jacket upwards u know in a very humiliating manner.NB:she TOTALLY isn't neggin or playing hard to get or that **** u dont imagine what she does....i dont wanna tell my friend to let her straighten up with me as she might say that i cant stand up for myself...not only to her self but to the group and maybe in my presecence too...or ask her why she's doin that (AFC)...i ofcourse wont be mean to her cuz shes my friend's sis which could cause something between me and my friend u know...what im thinking of is when i call my friend at his home and she answers the phone i tell her that i dont like her behaviour towards me and that she has to change it...otherwise not talk to me again.so what do you think guys???
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prob with my best friend's sis who keeps humiliating me....
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Centaurion
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She is doing sh!t like that because you've been a pushover from day one. B!tches want to see how far they can push the envelope. Unless you put your foot down, she's gonna keep on pushing.
Next time she pulls some sh!t, be firm and just go "What b!tch, you wanna suck my c*ck?" and put her in her f*cking place.
Next time she pulls some sh!t, be firm and just go "What b!tch, you wanna suck my c*ck?" and put her in her f*cking place.
she's my friend's sis and i dont wanna let anything happen between me and him hes been my friend since i was 3 years old...by the way i forgot to say that when she does this humiliation i ignore her completely and she keeps on and i tried to make it a laughing matter but nothing changes
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
It doesnt matter if she is mother theresa herself. Bottom line is, she is disrespecting you. I don't know about you, but I value myself and I wouldnt let some b!tch go on like that. Without your dignity you can just shave your nuts, tuck your d!ck between your legs and cluck.
At least tell her brother to talk to her if you're scared of confrontation.
At least tell her brother to talk to her if you're scared of confrontation.
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Dude... she is dissing you like mad, it doesn't matter if she's your friend's sister. I agree with what the guy above said, diss her back twice as hard and don't put up with her ****. Diss her, make everyone else laugh at her, show her that she can't kick you around without getting verbally smacked down.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
i'd let your friend know that his sis is crossing the line, and it's about to stop. make sure he's ok with it.
then let her know, this crap stops right here right now.
when she crosses the line again, make her regret it. you're 19 ffs.
then let her know, this crap stops right here right now.
when she crosses the line again, make her regret it. you're 19 ffs.
**** your friend. Whats more important to you being respected or keeping a friendship? If you're willing to be stripped out of your diginity then just sit there and take her ****, but if u want to be a respected individual sometimes you have to risk valuable things, even friendships.