"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRL, Casanova, et. al. - have a question for you

Genghis Juan

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PRL and other Seniors,

Remember that HB9 I was telling you about that I only date once every several weeks? Well, anyways, its been a few weeks since I contacted her. I know her through an MBA classmate of mine, she is his wife's babysitter. Anyways, my classmate told me last week, during class, "blah blah...oh by the way (Girl's Name) told me to tell you she says hi".

...Is that her indirect way of telling me to call her or something? I know some girls are just odd, or very conservative and never call or something...I know she's in a transition thing, where she is looking for a job, not sure where she is going to live, etc., etc...

It just odd that she doesn't call me or email me directly to say hi...

...I want to hear that southern accent of hers again...makes my w*ng really hard! ;)

What would you all do in my shoes?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kineti[C]harm

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It's a very positive sign for you (usually). From personal experience when a girl goes via common friends it's her way of thinking/asking whats up.
 
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I'm a senior at the age of 41 now. :rolleyes: Do I get a 10%discount on all my purchases? I think you have to be above 55.

When someonel tells someone else to say "hi" to another for him/her they are being polite. When a girl says it referring to a guy she dated before, she is saying "Tell him to call me"!!!!

Don't tell her that your friend told you that she said "hi" - don't mention it, even if she asks you. If she asks you, tell her that you called her on your own volition and you want to take her to an 'already planned event' and would she like to join you. Be smooth.

If she is a hb9 - I would be seeing her more often!!
 

Genghis Juan

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:) PRL, I used the wrong wording! I meant Masters not Seniors :)


Thanks for the advice.. How was your trip to Miami?

I will be going to Italy next month; Naples and Florence.

I will call the hb9, and I will put a plan in place. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bungo Pony

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I wrote a post on this a long time ago about Human Communication Devices (HCDs). People use other people to either relay messages or find out information about a person they're interested in. This is a give-away that the person is interested in either seeing you, or hearing from you. By all means, get in contact with her and set up a date.
 
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