"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem

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we all complain about the crappy threads and flaming in the hs forum, and heres our chance to show we give a shiit by actually doing something useful. if you havent noticed (and i dont think alotta people have), theres a new sticky thats called "HS Cleanup".

basically, PM any beef you have with the forums...want new rules, wanna see some thread showup in the dj hs bible, wanna be named greatest poster ever...and he'll take our suggestions, unless its the last one, and work them in.

click here to pm our mod, TheVirtualMind

and have a great day kids:up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No offense but this is a pointless thread it has no point.Its wasting space and there are important threads that actually talk about people who need help on life. This thread should be deleted!
 

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this thread is based on helping the forum and giving a link to message a mod about it.

if you wanna talk about pointless threads, dreamx...
 

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Danno, in the time you've been here you've been one of the chief contributors of a lot of the bullsh!t that gets posted here. this is no different. there's a sticky at the top, just let people read it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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