"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dannowillbookem

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we all complain about the crappy threads and flaming in the hs forum, and heres our chance to show we give a shiit by actually doing something useful. if you havent noticed (and i dont think alotta people have), theres a new sticky thats called "HS Cleanup".

basically, PM any beef you have with the forums...want new rules, wanna see some thread showup in the dj hs bible, wanna be named greatest poster ever...and he'll take our suggestions, unless its the last one, and work them in.

click here to pm our mod, TheVirtualMind

and have a great day kids:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No offense but this is a pointless thread it has no point.Its wasting space and there are important threads that actually talk about people who need help on life. This thread should be deleted!
 

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this thread is based on helping the forum and giving a link to message a mod about it.

if you wanna talk about pointless threads, dreamx...
 

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Danno, in the time you've been here you've been one of the chief contributors of a lot of the bullsh!t that gets posted here. this is no different. there's a sticky at the top, just let people read it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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