"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Printed dating profile fliers

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Take your dating profile and transfer select info onto 4” x 6” fliers.
Include your number on it for them to text, and no photos.
Dress in some fresh and comfortable clothes.
Have a sharp haircut, be in good fitness and date-ready.

Find a high traffic area crawling with hot babes.
Hand out fliers and say hey I would like to take you out sometime.
If she stops to chat you suggest a nice wine bar or cafe nearby.

With this technique you’re playing the odds in real-time and real-life, but at a similar pace as online dating apps.
She knows exactly what you look like.
You know what she looks like.
You have partially eliminated awkwardness for her.
It took less time than reading her dating profile and texting for days.
She can take it or leave it.

Find a shopping area where it is crawling with women.
I think this technique would work well for some.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have you done this before?
Not yet.
But I live in an area packed with single women.

And I printed a prototype for my dating profile.
It needs a few edits.
I will print 6-10 and see how it goes on the street.
If I get one date then it is a success in my book.

The women are generally attractive looking
They dress nice but they are avoidant.
They basically avoid everyone.
No smiles.
Not approachable.

I think the technique could mix things up
Because the way women work is to
Look hot and don’t smile and avoid everyone.
The print ads are to somehow get around that barrier.

Trying to kick that OLD middleman to the curb
;)
 

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Take your dating profile and transfer select info onto 4” x 6” fliers.
Include your number on it for them to text, and no photos.
Dress in some fresh and comfortable clothes.
Have a sharp haircut, be in good fitness and date-ready.

Find a high traffic area crawling with hot babes.
Hand out fliers and say hey I would like to take you out sometime.
If she stops to chat you suggest a nice wine bar or cafe nearby.

With this technique you’re playing the odds in real-time and real-life, but at a similar pace as online dating apps.
She knows exactly what you look like.
You know what she looks like.
You have partially eliminated awkwardness for her.
It took less time than reading her dating profile and texting for days.
She can take it or leave it.

Find a shopping area where it is crawling with women.
I think this technique would work well for some.
I think this would work well!
 

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From a logical male perspective yea it makes sense

From a female perspective its going to scream desperation I mean quality women are highly attracted to status and socially high standing men because the know other women will want them too

Standing around handing out flyers offering yourself up for a date is about as low value as it can get

I see it only working with women who are desperate for dates or maybe sl00ts

I could be wrong but I feel a woman with anything about her will not like it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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From a logical male perspective yea it makes sense

From a female perspective its going to scream desperation I mean quality women are highly attracted to status and socially high standing men because the know other women will want them too

Standing around handing out flyers offering yourself up for a date is about as low value as it can get

I see it only working with women who are desperate for dates or maybe sl00ts

I could be wrong but I feel a woman with anything about her will not like it
A few months ago I asked a woman about the idea of just handing out my dating profile in fliers. It was a woman who I was only texting with from online and we never met up. She never even sent me her photo.

She said the same things. Said it seems desperate, but, she did not live in my neighborhood. She lived in a run down ethnic neighborhood.

I almost wonder if that’s the difference.

When I walk out my door on any given day I will see at least one young hot fit young woman in about 1 second. It’s a constant stream of them all day long. Troops of young women. Women shopping. Rich college girls galore. On dates. Walking from bars. Or just walking aimlessly shopping or whatever.

The kicker is they only smile or have a good time unless they’re with friends or dates. When alone they are unapproachable for the most part. Not because I am ugly or anything, it’s just how they behave towards men or strangers. It’s how all of them behave is to ignore anyone they don’t know. They even selectively ignore people they do know.

But since this is a forum that constantly says all you need is to live in a prime location. Now you’re just desperate? Searching for ways to ask them out?

I do not do online dating because THAT is desperation. Being some dude trolling for dates on a phone when you straight up know for a FACT these women have you cornered in some internet dating straight jacket. That’s desperation. Opposed to asking them out in person, and providing information about yourself and providing a phone number to call and telling her to text if she would like to go out sometime.

You guys are a real piece of work here
 
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How about this…

Same deal.
You dress nice, smell nice, look sharp.
Smile a little bit.

You carry a clip board with papers and luxurious shiny pen.
You stand on a corner or prime area
Where the streets are flooded with single hotties

When you spot one that you might like to meet…
“Hey there I am studying online dating in the city, can you answer a few questions?”

;)
 
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Hand out fliers and say hey I would like to take you out sometime.
Women get hit on often, so they have an automatic "no" ready for a guy directly asking them out. I think your opening line will trigger that.

A lot of people dislike online dating, and you've thought up an alternative.
"Instead of Tinder, maybe you'd like ..."


“Hey there I am doing a research project studying online dating in the city, can you answer a few questions?”
That's much better than your original opening line.
 

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How about this…

Same deal.
You dress nice, smell nice, look sharp.
Smile a little bit.

You carry a clip board with papers and luxurious shiny pen.
You stand on a corner or prime area
Where the streets are flooded with single hotties

When you spot one that you might like to meet…
“Hey there I am studying online dating in the city, can you answer a few questions?”

;)
Most people go out of their way to avoid street spam. If you live in a high traffic area, ditch the pretense and just go talk to women. It is not that hard.

Edit, if you did it for "Instagram" with a camera they might respond - hoping to be the next hawk tuah girl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just start talking to women you find attractive! Thats all it takes fellas.
Your time may have passed, Duke. Behaviors like

-Getting out of bed at decent time in the morning

-Shaving

-Showering

-Throwing on recently washed, stylish clothes

-Combing one's hair, if he isn't bald

-Walking out one's front door and being among other human beings

Started to be derided as "normie stuff" back in '16, and has become all-but-antiquated in this Post-Pandemic world we inhabit now. Hanging out in the comments section on YouTube, dreaming of a day where The Gender Gods will reign fire down onto The Gynocentric Feminine Primary Social Order that allegedly persecutes us, then replaces it with a Red Pill Kingdom Of Heaven On Earth is what's hip, here in '24 :p ;)
 

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Lotta mental gymnastics to avoid approaching women by making it more difficult.

It's a typical idea that actually might take off somehow. But then you gotta do it properly. Get a billboard type of add which makes you look larger than life. Will cost thousands, but hey . Flyers seem cheap.

It's creative nevertheless.
 

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20 years ago, a buddy from my kickboxing dojo used to walk up to girls in dance clubs and asked them straight if they want to fvck.
10% said yes. While the quality of these women was disputable, he got his dyck wet and was content. It was a numbers game and it could work with flyers today.

That said, back in the day he looked like Jason Momoa before Jason Momoa was even a thing.

Does OP look like Jason Momoa?
 

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You guys are pretty great tho.

I am new here and read this one liner by the Duke and it was epic. He had like 20 of us who gave him the like and everything.

I dunno, but if you guys were with me in my neighborhood and saw what I see, you’d be marking up fliers too

BUT…
I recently got away from this liberal Marxist hellhole of a city and I saw with my own two eyes: normal women who are not Marxist indoctrinated spoiled rotten traitors. It was a site to see

you fkkers have no clue here
 

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The Duke is officially unbanned from my account

He reminds me of my dad, and having petty disagreements with him

mthfkkr knows his stuff tho
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think I saw your flyer posted on a lamp post the other day in NYC Lol. Most people were walking by and laughing. A bit cringey but it might work.
 

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Just start talking to women you find attractive! Thats all it takes fellas.
You know a stud when you see one hahaha. I love your approach to life Duke.

It really shows that nothing beats experience.
 

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Great work on the mods for slamming the ban hammer om this fool. I detest how some dudes make threads and next react like teenage girls when they get pushback.

Recently I start to look at shyte from a different pov. This thread is actually a great example of how modern males operate. They (sub??) consciously try to avoid approaching women/life/ happyness/ self improvement like the plague and look for cheat codes.

This is yet another example. OP.is walking around frustrated because he's invincible to women. Instead of working on the real issues he comes up with this (somewhat creative but creepy) idea..

Imo some passport bros do the same shyte. Jumping through hoops just to avoid being a social guy who knows that life for a man is all about the grind, fighting off compititors and taking one on the chin occasionally.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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