"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did anyone get david deangelos tip via email on priming. I talks about if you use words like funny, confident and strong etc it will enable to girl to think of you in that way easier. What are your views on this / have you got any examples?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yea, i 've read that too, but i never tried it on purpose, so i dont really no if it works, but david seemed to be confident in it so it should work. And by the way, y dont u ask david if he made it up.
 
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That's a load of BS .. thinking a girl is going to be triggered by variables and something so shallow as words .. lol.

He keeps making money of that BS, and is the same recurring theme over and over. He just gives guys that had no self-esteem a means to approach a girl, and one of them finally gets a date, they write to him as if his stuff had anything to really do with it.

His emails from a *woman* are templated. Have you ever noticed they always tell him "David, you figured out our little secret!" .. lol .. do you honestly think every woman that writes him is going to say this? In virtually everyone one of his templated woman posts, they say this .. that should give you a clue it's not all orignal and some of it is fabricated bs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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His emails may be made up but priming isnt something invented by D.D its a psycholgoical thing - its like noticing things because u have seen it / heard about it before hand like if u buy a car u notice the same car as urs all over the place. Also his emails may be templated and made up but its to get a point across - i personally think D.D is gr8 at what he does.
 
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