"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did anyone get david deangelos tip via email on priming. I talks about if you use words like funny, confident and strong etc it will enable to girl to think of you in that way easier. What are your views on this / have you got any examples?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yea, i 've read that too, but i never tried it on purpose, so i dont really no if it works, but david seemed to be confident in it so it should work. And by the way, y dont u ask david if he made it up.
 
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That's a load of BS .. thinking a girl is going to be triggered by variables and something so shallow as words .. lol.

He keeps making money of that BS, and is the same recurring theme over and over. He just gives guys that had no self-esteem a means to approach a girl, and one of them finally gets a date, they write to him as if his stuff had anything to really do with it.

His emails from a *woman* are templated. Have you ever noticed they always tell him "David, you figured out our little secret!" .. lol .. do you honestly think every woman that writes him is going to say this? In virtually everyone one of his templated woman posts, they say this .. that should give you a clue it's not all orignal and some of it is fabricated bs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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His emails may be made up but priming isnt something invented by D.D its a psycholgoical thing - its like noticing things because u have seen it / heard about it before hand like if u buy a car u notice the same car as urs all over the place. Also his emails may be templated and made up but its to get a point across - i personally think D.D is gr8 at what he does.
 
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