"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pride Month

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I have nothing against gay people….However I think there spoiled when they have the entire month of June dedicated to them.

I’m not going to lie, I like the energy of their festivities and parades. If I were there I would probably use that time to make friends and hit on the single women there at that scene lol.

I mean they literally stole a vibrant symbology which is the rainbow. Do you guys think If we were to give Veterans and active duty military the rainbow and pride parade treatment, it would be just as seemingly joyful? lol you tell me.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gays and trannies get an entire month to celebrate ass fvcking, while veterans with PTSD get 1 day.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Believing that things like our complexions, ethnicities, and sexual orientations are something to be "proud" of has been an intellectual regression, the likes of which may actually outdo referring to drunks as "alcoholics", in terms of sheer idiocy
 

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I have nothing against gay people….However I think there spoiled when they have the entire month of June dedicated to them.

I’m not going to lie, I like the energy of their festivities and parades. If I were there I would probably use that time to make friends and hit on the single women there at that scene lol.

I mean they literally stole a vibrant symbology which is the rainbow. Do you guys think If we were to give Veterans and active duty military the rainbow and pride parade treatment, it would be just as seemingly joyful? lol you tell me.

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Two scenarios
1) Private Ryan went to war and watched his entire platoon get killed and returned home with a missing leg. Few care.
2) Ryan was born gay and likes to wear makeup and rainbow tee-shirts. Stunning and brave.

It used to be illegal to be gay so you can understand why they celebrate that freedom, but the disproportionate amount of recognition now is ridiculous. It gets shoved down our throats (no pun intended) for an entire month. Maybe they just have a better marketing team.
 

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Two scenarios
1) Private Ryan went to war and watched his entire platoon get killed and returned home with a missing leg. Few care.
2) Ryan was born gay and likes to wear makeup and rainbow tee-shirts. Stunning and brave.

It used to be illegal to be gay so you can understand why they celebrate that freedom, but the disproportionate amount of recognition now is ridiculous. It gets shoved down our throats (no pun intended) for an entire month. Maybe they just have a better marketing team.
lol…wasn’t Ryan talking to his wife at the end of the movie? But Yeah, I believe that rainbow has energy and combine it with anything and it’ll give off the same appeal….now that it’s summer. The good news is those Pride events seems to be a hot spot for evangelizers and pastors to come out and preach. That should balance things out lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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