"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GetFit66

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Let's not get into the ethics debate about this, there are valid uses for such things, please make your own thread for that if you feel so compelled.

I had some very romantic cut and pastes I used back in the day when I still had romance left in me. I will try and dig those up. If you must know tonight I am looking for an apology if anyone wants to share one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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devilkingx2

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romance is for women fam.
 

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IMG_0297.jpg Just sent this to all 3 plates and they are swooning. This is true romance --^
 

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Recently while cleaning the garage I came across some sappy love letters I wrote to girlfriends when I was a teenager.... Long ago... back when you wrote letters... in cursive...

Cringe worthy for sure but they made me smile.... Live and learn.
 

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Recently while cleaning the garage I came across some sappy love letters I wrote to girlfriends when I was a teenager.... Long ago... back when you wrote letters... in cursive...

Cringe worthy for sure but they made me smile.... Live and learn.
jesus, how old are you!?!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A little romance is what women use to justify you reaming the hell out of them.
 

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Unless you are under 20, steer clear of written communication. Too cheesy, and too easy to get the wrong idea.

Letters and texting should be simple and to the point.
 

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being alpha and doing a beta move like this will make a girl fall in love hard. ive written letters that girls have read 100 times. think about thst. your text is forgotten in .5 seconds. but a letter you write her she will burn in her brain forever
 

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:D Letters and verbal communication both have their place, but you can also use letters as a way to come up with ideas for verbal communication. I personally havn't cared for romance or anything near romantic in a while, I doubt I will anytime soon since the kind of girl I would even begin to fall in love with is pretty rare but it's good to have these kinds of things on hand to help keep a healthy selection of plates around. Or just friends. Almost all women I know complain that I am not romantic or emotional enough etc etc except one...she complains I'm way too emotional :D and yes ... that's the one I want more with. Sadly she is a robot :D. She let a guy sleep at her place overnight once and said what a big and intimate step that was for her, I think a few days later he told her he loved her and food pretty much came flying out of her mouth onto him. That was when I knew if it was going to be someone it would be her.

@Dingo yeah I don't think I would be able to read the stuff I wrote in the past either.
 

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Before I left for Europe not knowing if I was coming back to Oz. I wrote the girl I was seeing at the time a letter.

I came back 6 months later we started dating soon after.

After a year together she still tells me how she reads that letter whenever she has a bad day.

There's nothing wrong with doing things like this, just make sure the girl its for is worth it.

Emotion is a powerful ally fellas.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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