"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pretty Sure Girlfriend is Pregnant... Experiences?

foomee

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I'm 90% sure my girlfriend is pregnant. She did 3 different pregnancy tests and they all turned out positive. She wants to have an abortion and do it through her doctor. Anyhow, I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this or what are your experiences?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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let her have the abortion and forget about it.

thats cold coming from a father..but your 20 and she doesnt want it.

she has to live with that guilt you dont.

thats reality.
 

frivolousz21

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However be prepared if she has the abortion that you and her wont be the same anymore
 

Moofahsa

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Dont worry about it, it isn't your choice as your just a sperm donor

Sounds bad, but don't stay up late at night wondering what if...it is her priority.

Good luck bro
 

Joe The Homophobe

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frivolousz21 said:
However be prepared if she has the abortion that you and her wont be the same anymore
also be prepared to get away from this b|tch and next time use a [censored] condom (please don't give the usual condom broke excuse)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EFFORT

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Wow i wouldn't be sleeping nice until i knew that baby was 100% aborted. With all the goals and dreams i have the threat of having a baby would feel like the end of the world.
 

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abortions are pretty easy and standard, as long as your girl wants to get it, and gets a SURGICAL abortion within the first 14 weeks, then you will be fine

don't let her do medical abortion, its success rate is only 92-97% (do you want to take that chance???)
 
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