Pretty sure, but I want another opinion

[KEddie]

This girl I know recently broke up with her boyfriend, and I've always thought that she was a good catch. We get along pretty well, an we have a good friendship (please don't speak of that friend zone jiber jabber). Anyway, we've always been really flirty, but I think that's mostly because she is just really comfortable around me and with herself.

Lately, we've been hanging out more with other firends too sometimes. We used to only see each other maybe once a week/ every other week, and now we see each other about 3-5 times a weeks.

So far she has straddled me twice play fighting, we've gone for a few walks to get food etc., and the other night while at a friends place we cuddled on the couch and watched a movie.

Another thing that she's been doing is every once in a while I'll say something stupid and she'll hit me, not hard or anything, but not exactly soft either.

Anyway, her typical type is like a skater dude, or a punky type of guy, I am not either, I'm just a regular guy with no affiliations to your standard groups.

Now for my question, is she displaying intrest or just feeling more at ease with me?

 

[Javelin44]

interest

 

[aftershock]

It looks like interest. Only one way to find out - he who hesitates, masturbates - next time you're alone with her cut the crap and go for the kiss.

Beware of being the rebound guy though - how long was she with the other guy for, how did they break up?

Don't believe all that "typical guy" lark, by the way.

 

[isotope]

how long have you known her? is she s good friend and you dont want to make it akward? because otherwise JUST DO IT, GRAB YOUR BAWLS !! LOL

i would just kiss her next time you two get physical (be smooth though, for gods sake)

and pay close attention to her reaction. you'll have your answer

 

[MidnightResistance]

This is going to go badly.

You've been labelled FRIEND already.

Game Over man...Game Over.

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Feeling more at ease.

In her mind, likely, you're a good friend who is helping to a fill a void that was left when she and her boyfriend broke up. You're providing the emotional support she needs (through friendship) and occupying the time that she would've otherwise spent with her boyfriend.

You can try to "Grab your balls and go for the kiss" like some advocate, but the best thing you'll get out of it is a short stint as her "rebound guy", the likely thing you'll get is an awkward moment (either when she rebuffs your kiss attempt or afterwards when she realizes that she's just sent the wrong signal to a friend), and the worst thing you'll get is a friend that's mad at you for thinking you could move in on her when she's vulnerable.