Hey guys,
My excuses for my bad grammar/english, sometimes I think in my own language and type.
Some days ago I met suddenly a clever woman, about 30s... We met on a meeting that was arranged by others, it was a tour. After that tour, lasted for 2 hours, purposed to go for a coffee... She was like yes was thinking the same, and after a little said, lets invite the others of the tour to join... (while this event was happening, we where talking / knowing each other a bit.
Back to the coffee... We where walking with the others of the tour, but only talking the two of us, suddenly we lost the other (cause we where walking faster) She didn't seem to care and we went for lunch and then for coffee. We talked about 4-5 hours after that tour.
We left each other in the evening, and the same day we arranged a second time to meet. This was today. (3 days after).
The date, was to be at 18:00 but due to she was not feeling good, she fall asleep so she was late by 30 minutes (about), I picked her from her place. It didn't go well so half way of our diner, I purposed as she is not feeling good to bring her home, and reschedule it...
While i was paying the bill, she wanted to pay, but as a gent, I did say this is a mine and blah blah... then she dropped the bomb: I more or less see it like a friendly date, cause I am not into anything due to many things i have.
(She has kids, divorced and many things on her head, i do not want to mention, i prefer to pm them if needed, trying to avoid giving any connection to events.).
I was really good,, maybe wrong, explained that I like her style from our first hangout and I want to see if this is or not. (mean while the 4 days between the first and the second, we where texting, and everything seemed really positive, like she is interested).
The thing is, after our chat about this, with no pressure, we still wanted to see me again + if she was better this weekend would be a good thing to do so.
She was more warm than the dinner after our small talk, and because we have many thing in common, we have grounds to meet again.
The thing is, should i drop it? give more space and go slow, or something else?
the next moment after the failed dinner, she was apologetic through text, and today she was keeping a bit of texting going on, like before.
Do you need more details?
P.S> the kids are not staying with her, but she will have them after she moves to her own place.
My excuses for my bad grammar/english, sometimes I think in my own language and type.
Some days ago I met suddenly a clever woman, about 30s... We met on a meeting that was arranged by others, it was a tour. After that tour, lasted for 2 hours, purposed to go for a coffee... She was like yes was thinking the same, and after a little said, lets invite the others of the tour to join... (while this event was happening, we where talking / knowing each other a bit.
Back to the coffee... We where walking with the others of the tour, but only talking the two of us, suddenly we lost the other (cause we where walking faster) She didn't seem to care and we went for lunch and then for coffee. We talked about 4-5 hours after that tour.
We left each other in the evening, and the same day we arranged a second time to meet. This was today. (3 days after).
The date, was to be at 18:00 but due to she was not feeling good, she fall asleep so she was late by 30 minutes (about), I picked her from her place. It didn't go well so half way of our diner, I purposed as she is not feeling good to bring her home, and reschedule it...
While i was paying the bill, she wanted to pay, but as a gent, I did say this is a mine and blah blah... then she dropped the bomb: I more or less see it like a friendly date, cause I am not into anything due to many things i have.
(She has kids, divorced and many things on her head, i do not want to mention, i prefer to pm them if needed, trying to avoid giving any connection to events.).
I was really good,, maybe wrong, explained that I like her style from our first hangout and I want to see if this is or not. (mean while the 4 days between the first and the second, we where texting, and everything seemed really positive, like she is interested).
The thing is, after our chat about this, with no pressure, we still wanted to see me again + if she was better this weekend would be a good thing to do so.
She was more warm than the dinner after our small talk, and because we have many thing in common, we have grounds to meet again.
The thing is, should i drop it? give more space and go slow, or something else?
the next moment after the failed dinner, she was apologetic through text, and today she was keeping a bit of texting going on, like before.
Do you need more details?
P.S> the kids are not staying with her, but she will have them after she moves to her own place.
