"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pretty amusing actually

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wow that was REALLY amazing... I just have to keep opening his page, every time I lay eyes upon it I *gasp*
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pretty confusing actually
 

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yeah that stupid error message came up when i posted this. I'm sure you guys wondered how I created a thread and my handle and text were no where to be found.

Moving on, this is what i was going to post

read it if you have a minute or two to kill. I'd like to see the "touchdown" in real time, I think it'd be pretty humorus. The author of the article writes for maxim so it's worth a chuckle.
 

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Actually I like that article - the rejections they offer are actually nice. Personally, I'm not so nice in my own rejections. Once this fat girl kept trying to hit on me (despite me ignoring her), so I bluntly told her I didn't date women heavier than my car.

Also, the article is targeted towards men too (most of the examples are men rejecting women).

I like this one though:
"A girl came up to me at a party once; she was cute, but all she talked about was herself, so I wanted to bail. I shuffled around in my pocket and made my phone go off by pressing the "ringer choice" button. Then I picked it up and said, loud enough for her to hear me, 'My parrot escaped?'

The "3 Signs Someone is Trying to Avoid You" is actually quite good too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by mroriginal
WTF is going on? :confused:
Catch up original! I created a thread but while it was posting the server had an error so it made the thread but none of my details. The article is linked in my...well I guess it's my first post in the thread but it ended up being the third post because of the error.

Come to think of it, the situation is quite confusing.
 
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