Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pretty accurate personallity test to help understand yourself.

SamTheHobit

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I came across this personality test from a friend and I found it pretty accurate.

Hopefully it might help you guys understand yourselves a bit better.

www.16personalities.com

Please post your results and thoughts on the results etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is simply the Myers-Briggs test...it is pretty accurate tho, I'm an INTJ
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ESTJ. It was mostly accurate for me, just missed a couple things.
 

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I got INFJ. Quite accurate I think. Also quite a rare personality type.
 
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Always waiver between INFP and ENFP depending on when I test, which is about right. My introversion/extroversion is cyclical--I'll build up huge social networks and go out every night for a couple months and then get tired of everybody and mostly isolate myself for a couple months.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ESTJ-A.
Although I don't understand why extroverted. I took the test like 10 years ago and I was super introverted.
I guess it's because I said I don't have problems talking before many people. I mean I can hold presentations, I can give concerts, but talking to a girl if I really desire her... oh my ;)
At least I'm super assertive.
 

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I got INFP. I think I was an INFJ when I did it a few years ago though.
 

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If you answer truthfully about who you are, and not who you would like to be, it is very accurate. ENFP-T
 

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I got about half way in and stopped. Too many open ended questions that I frankly can't reconcile. My answer now would be different tomorrow. So what's the point. One went something like, "How much more do value organization over adaptability?" ... and there's like 8 potential answers or something? How the f*ck am I supposed to... might as well just randomly move the slider.
 
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INTP 5w4 SP/SX

ESxx starts out way higher than INxx on the alpha totem pole, but that's what this community is for right?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I got about half way in and stopped. Too many open ended questions that I frankly can't reconcile. My answer now would be different tomorrow. So what's the point. One went something like, "How much more do value organization over adaptability?" ... and there's like 8 potential answers or something? How the f*ck am I supposed to... might as well just randomly move the slider.
This is completely my thoughts as well. How the fvck can I answer the questions when I have literally NO frame of reference at all?

I got ESTP-T, but I feel more at home with the description of ENTP-T (which I was 3% away from getting) that I've gotten in the past. I really have no idea if it's accurate or not though. If I did a test like this I would make a bunch of examples and specify the details of them.
 
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