Pressure and problems caused by my small penis

[Stavrogin]

I don't understand all this talk about not being able to stay hard. My problem is that I can't stay SOFT! I start to get hard as soon as I talk to a woman who I'm attracted to; sometimes I have to walk away before I poke her.

 

[Nighthawk]

Originally posted by Nighthawk
Also remember - long and thin, goes straight in, short and thick does the trick.

Luckily mine is both long AND thick, but I reckon size is only 25% of what's important to be a good lover, with stamina at 20%, hand skills at 10%, tongue skills at 25% and DOMINANT/SEXY ATTITUDE the most important at 30%.

I was discussing the importance of penis size and other factors with a gf and, without showing her my estimates or hinting that attitude was my choice for top factor, got her to rate them in a similar way. Bear in mind that I have a massive penis so she was under no pressure to under-score penis size for my benefit. I also told her to add any factors I'd forgotten. Her answers are as follows.

PENIS SIZE - 15% (adjusted from 20% when she remembered the last factor)

STAMINA/DURATION - 10%

LOOKS (includes clothes/image) - 20%

ATTITUDE - 30%

FOREPLAY SKILLS, HEAD/HANDS ETC - 25%

HYGEINE (HER ADDED FACTOR) - 5%


I think these results would be reflected by a wider sample, ask your gfs/women in bars/your mom.

There's nothing much you can do about penis size, and only so much you can do about your looks, but the rest is improvable, especially the most important.

GET CONFIDENT, STUPID!

 

[TCDude]

* Small women don't automatically have a small/tight vagina any more than small men automatically have a small penis. The idea to date small women is a logical falacy.

* A 4.5" erect penis is smaller than average, no need to bull**** about it. Keep in mind though that "average" is what the middle guy has. 1/2 of all guys are smaller than "average". 1/2 of all guys are bigger than "average". That's the nature of average.

* Experienced women are aware (and expect) that men smaller than average are skilled in oral sex. Become skilled in oral sex.

* Experienced women are aware (and expect) that men larger than average will spend less time in foreplay and more time riding.

* Some women prefer really big penii. Just a fact. Just like some men prefer really big boobs. If you like big boobs and she's a 32A then you don't date her. If you're really small and she insists upon 9"+ weiners then don't date her.

* Most women could care less about the size of your penis. She just wants you to hold her. When she wants a super-stud with a 10" tool (occasionally) she'll just go get some and come back home to you. Let her do that if she wants... what's the harm?

relax about it and just enjoy her....

 

[singleagain]

man i know the feeling of not getting it up, after my divorce i got with a girl smokin body, the first night we got together i was drunk and we had good sex, not great but good. after that everytime i would get hard and before i put it in it would go soft not from stage fright or fear of size im confident in that but it just would happen and the more i tried the worse it got, finally i bought these pills, went over there had 2 beers my heart pounded a million miles an hour and nothing, i thought about it and thought about it i got hard when she wasnt trying to get me going . so then i suprised her one night i went over when she was sleeping in the dark went in and wham bam thank you mam i made her scream. i later realized i just wasnt that attracted to her. so if you worry it will only get worse. and if you try drinking first make sure you dont drink to much for the whiskey d1ck effect will happen. the point of this is just not to think about it because it will happen, focus on one thing and not your size, think about her breast or a body part of her you like. you'll pull through.

 

[Cruise]

Yeah... you get to a point when your jimmy doesn't respond to just any chick anymore... not like high school/college days... it needs more stimulation... in this case emotional connection and that 'chemistry'.

2 cents.

 

[SoCalMike]

Yeah... you get to a point when your jimmy doesn't respond to just any chick anymore... not like high school/college days... it needs more stimulation... in this case emotional connection and that 'chemistry'.

2 cents.

Ain't that the truth. The sad thing is when I was 18 and horny as a billy goat I couldn't get laid to save my life. Now that I'm 31, more mature/confident, I can get laid pretty easy but I'm nowhere near as horny.