Lordlaxative
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What are your feelings on those roses, chocolate kisses, etc. that the clubs sell at school from guys to girls. Romantic or dumb or AFC?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
good question. I'm interested myself.
OneNotchHigher
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Thats a pretty good quesion. I think that in general, i would avoid sending or giving a rose or something that the school is selling. In a highschool setting, it is sometimes veiwed as vulnerable to enjoy getting a rose from a club. The girl may act as though she finds it creepy, just to impress her freinds. Also, I think that it is too much placing the girl on a pedistal. If there were a girl i wanted for valentines, i would just ask her on v day date, and tell her it will be the best v day shes had, then i would be posotive to deliver that claim.
however if i had a steady girlfreind, then i would definatly send her a rose or kiss.
ONH
however if i had a steady girlfreind, then i would definatly send her a rose or kiss.
ONH
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No.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
InsidiousNstinct
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One of my teachers is selling roses but their made out of some kind of plastic, and inside the rose is 2 hersey kisses..
Come to find out the teachers wife teaches handicapped kids and they made them. So if the money is going toward something good, in my case going to help handicapped children. Then what the heck...give one to your mom or something.
Come to find out the teachers wife teaches handicapped kids and they made them. So if the money is going toward something good, in my case going to help handicapped children. Then what the heck...give one to your mom or something.
InsidiousNstinct
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After I read your post again I seen what you were asking. In my opinion nothing wrong with it.
misunderstood??
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My school has a really cool thing like that. You pay $2 and request a song to have some people go to whomever you wants classroom and sing whatever song you want them to sing during their class.