"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Presents

Lordlaxative

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What are your feelings on those roses, chocolate kisses, etc. that the clubs sell at school from guys to girls. Romantic or dumb or AFC?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OneNotchHigher

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Thats a pretty good quesion. I think that in general, i would avoid sending or giving a rose or something that the school is selling. In a highschool setting, it is sometimes veiwed as vulnerable to enjoy getting a rose from a club. The girl may act as though she finds it creepy, just to impress her freinds. Also, I think that it is too much placing the girl on a pedistal. If there were a girl i wanted for valentines, i would just ask her on v day date, and tell her it will be the best v day shes had, then i would be posotive to deliver that claim.

however if i had a steady girlfreind, then i would definatly send her a rose or kiss.

ONH
 

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I'm not really a big fan on the whole present thing. I choose not to celebrate Valentines Day. However I do use the day as something to talk about. So it helps me at one time
 

Smooth as Anything

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No.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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InsidiousNstinct

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One of my teachers is selling roses but their made out of some kind of plastic, and inside the rose is 2 hersey kisses..

Come to find out the teachers wife teaches handicapped kids and they made them. So if the money is going toward something good, in my case going to help handicapped children. Then what the heck...give one to your mom or something.
 

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After I read your post again I seen what you were asking. In my opinion nothing wrong with it.
 

misunderstood??

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My school has a really cool thing like that. You pay $2 and request a song to have some people go to whomever you wants classroom and sing whatever song you want them to sing during their class.
 
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