"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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present 'attractive' convo - she should want to give you the number....?

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SuperChillies

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I was going over the past few days of my journal, had not alot of success, started reading up on 'attraction' & 'conversation' to see where I was doing wrong.

the basic premise in the bible says "you raise her attraction for you by ":

* HUMOR
* WARMTH
* CONFIDENCE

does that really work ?

Taking this idea further, I believe this is want needs to be done or improved on:
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present the conversation , as a good experience for her, in order to present this good experience you need to have some humor which shows confidence , and somewhat intelligent to be able to switch topics quickly.


basically make the conversation a pleasant experience for her, rather than a boring interview-like experience.. and this takes confidence convey warmth ( by smiling and / or humor ) generally by the words or stuff you talk about...

basically you are showing 'the goods' or that you are a confident & intelligent guy

if you manage a somewhat good basic convo ; basically she should give you her number.. ( is my new theory)

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will try this out over the next few days and let you know...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fred Da Head

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She will likely give you her number with a basic acceptable convo; the question is to see whether she will let you follow-up with a date. If you have something in common that the two of you can do together, it'll be a lot easier than if you're just a random guy who had an all right convo with her.

The best example I can think of from my own experience is a girl I met at an opera; turned out we had planned to go to another opera some time later, and ended up going alone. I honestly don't know if I would have gone out with her again had it not been for the presence of another element to bring us together; a hook, if you will.
 
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