present 'attractive' convo - she should want to give you the number....?

[SuperChillies]

I was going over the past few days of my journal, had not alot of success, started reading up on 'attraction' & 'conversation' to see where I was doing wrong.

the basic premise in the bible says "you raise her attraction for you by ":

* HUMOR
* WARMTH
* CONFIDENCE

does that really work ?

Taking this idea further, I believe this is want needs to be done or improved on:
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present the conversation , as a good experience for her, in order to present this good experience you need to have some humor which shows confidence , and somewhat intelligent to be able to switch topics quickly.


basically make the conversation a pleasant experience for her, rather than a boring interview-like experience.. and this takes confidence convey warmth ( by smiling and / or humor ) generally by the words or stuff you talk about...

basically you are showing 'the goods' or that you are a confident & intelligent guy

if you manage a somewhat good basic convo ; basically she should give you her number.. ( is my new theory)

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will try this out over the next few days and let you know...

 

[Fred Da Head]

She will likely give you her number with a basic acceptable convo; the question is to see whether she will let you follow-up with a date. If you have something in common that the two of you can do together, it'll be a lot easier than if you're just a random guy who had an all right convo with her.

The best example I can think of from my own experience is a girl I met at an opera; turned out we had planned to go to another opera some time later, and ended up going alone. I honestly don't know if I would have gone out with her again had it not been for the presence of another element to bring us together; a hook, if you will.

 

[n00bPimp]

Girls dont give out their #s to every person they share a good convo with. You have to make them feel sexual tension if you want them to continue the meeting. A way to do this is by combining confidence with humor, aka c&F.