Preplanning for date on Tuesday

[Ryan]

Hi guys,

So I have a date on Tuesday night at a park to see the sunset, I may bring some beers. We will be meeting up at the Tim Hortons ( coffee shop for the non-canadians on here), then we will drive to the spot (probably take my car)

She messages me " Can I book you in for Tuesday? Im planning" I reply "Yes please I would like an appointment, is there a no show fee"

The girl

• Shes 22
• Very sciency/nerdy: very rigid thinking
• Loves math and physics---> her dream is to design rollercoasters (rollercoaster pattern?)
• Seems like she has poor social skills / wierd (judging from the texts)
• I'm already thinking she is a bit wack (but hey poomps is poomps)

Of course being a master don juan I already indentified her facebook profile:




The objective: make out...


The Plan:

• use the question list in the thread that marmel posted
• Memorize IC pattern
• use her trance words back to her to increase rapport (google the lecture by david snyder)
• Perhaps if there is enough interest ---->> transition into massage.

My concern is creating attraction.......I can get dates, but face to face...it seems like I flop.


Any other suggestions folks?





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[marmel75]

If you were a master you would not be planning out a date and you damn sure wouldnt be worrying about these dumb ass patterns.

You would just show up confident of what the end result would be.

 

[MrWood]

• Memorize IC pattern

• use her trance words

never done this... must be why i get laid and have hot chix

 

[Ryan]

If you were a master you would not be planning out a date and you damn sure wouldnt be worrying about these dumb ass patterns.

You would just show up confident of what the end result would be.

You dont plan? You just show up??

 

[MrWood]

You dont plan? You just show up??

yes

 

[Ryan]

never done this... must be why i get laid and have hot chix

We would appreciate if you could actually provide some meaningful suggestions

Thanks.

 

[Ryan]

Ok I am sure I am the only person on this forum that plans dates.....(out of the ones that get dates)....

 

[MrWood]

what exactly is your goal? You are 36yo and on this forum for 18 years...
if you just want sex... get a wh0re
if you want a nice date, that may or not lead to a kiss, makeout and maybe sex... try asking her what she likes to do/some story about yourself

dates are awkward, especialy if you have never met (OLD), so you need to find something, the fvcking weather or something that makes words exchange between two people. Have you ever been outside of the city? You are Canadian (India decent?) (btw Canadian women are dumb as bricks, but hot... I was married to two of them) and can talk about fvcking hockey, cheese or the proper way to pronounce the word "been"

I use flirty sarcasm with chix, one of the most difficult ways to present oneself, I am sarcastic about life, women, sterotypes etc.
Have you ever once made a random comment to someone and they laughed? do that.

 

[Ryan]

what exactly is your goal? You are 36yo and on this forum for 18 years...
if you just want sex... get a wh0re
if you want a nice date, that may or not lead to a kiss, makeout and maybe sex... try asking her what she likes to do/some story about yourself

dates are awkward, especialy if you have never met (OLD), so you need to find something, the fvcking weather or something that makes words exchange between two people. Have you ever been outside of the city? You are Canadian (India decent?) (btw Canadian women are dumb as bricks, but hot... I was married to two of them) and can talk about fvcking hockey, cheese or the proper way to pronounce the word "been"

I use flirty sarcasm with chix, one of the most difficult ways to present oneself, I am sarcastic about life, women, sterotypes etc.
Have you ever once made a random comment to someone and they laughed? do that.

I want sex for sure.......possible a relationsip if shes normal.

I will assume you are not being serious about getting a wh0re, (I would rather jack off until my hand breaks before paying someone for something she will enjoy more than me)

Would you be able to give me some examples of flirty sarcasm?

Not sure how you arrived at the 36yo figure, but that is not relevant...

Thanks.

 

[Ryan]

what exactly is your goal? You are 36yo and on this forum for 18 years...
if you just want sex... get a wh0re
if you want a nice date, that may or not lead to a kiss, makeout and maybe sex... try asking her what she likes to do/some story about yourself

dates are awkward, especialy if you have never met (OLD), so you need to find something, the fvcking weather or something that makes words exchange between two people. Have you ever been outside of the city? You are Canadian (India decent?) (btw Canadian women are dumb as bricks, but hot... I was married to two of them) and can talk about fvcking hockey, cheese or the proper way to pronounce the word "been"

I use flirty sarcasm with chix, one of the most difficult ways to present oneself, I am sarcastic about life, women, sterotypes etc.
Have you ever once made a random comment to someone and they laughed? do that.

My friends consider me funny. Maybe I should learn the ****y and funny stuff

 

[MrWood]

if you have been on SS for 18years, and I figure you were at least 18 when you did that
18+18=36

getting a wh0re, (I would rather jack off until my hand breaks before paying someone for something she will enjoy more than me)

perhaps you are homosexual?

date night, sit down together..
you: "im glad we met in a public place, I was abit worried you might be trying to seduce me" said with a chuckle


how old are you?
have you ever made one comment in your life that made a woman laugh?
try talking.. not patterns or whatever the fvck "her trance words" are.
mirror her words... if she uses the word beautiful, interesting, "i love to xyz", etc etc use it in your conversation (works great in text btw)

be a human first, one that can say a sentence and annunciate clearly

 

[devilkingx2]

Planning out a date is fine as long as your plan is extremely flexible, leave room for error, skipping things, missing things, forgetting things, doing it out of order, etc.

Plan it out just enough that you have something to say and don't get stuck staring blankly, no need to go and full on memorize a script though

Mainly just relax and do your thing, if she doesn't like you it'll be hard and no matter how hard you try you'll probably fail, if she likes you it'll be easy and you can fvck up constantly but still get the kiss. She's most likely to like you, if she didn't she never would've agreed to go out with you (unless she's getting a free expensive dinner out of this)

 

[Ryan]

if you have been on SS for 18years, and I figure you were at least 18 when you did that
18+18=36


perhaps you are homosexual?

date night, sit down together..
you: "im glad we met in a public place, I was abit worried you might be trying to seduce me" said with a chuckle


how old are you?
have you ever made one comment in your life that made a woman laugh?
try talking.. not patterns or whatever the fvck "her trance words" are.
mirror her words... if she uses the word beautiful, interesting, "i love to xyz", etc etc use it in your conversation (works great in text btw)

be a human first, one that can say a sentence and annunciate clearly

Well its going to be at a waterfall at sunset.......

When I asked her about her passions she mentioned the words "magical" will rephrase that back to her....when talking about my passions

I am bringing beers..

The reason I started this thread is b/c I dont want to make the mistakes I made in the other thread....so dont complain if i post a FR with mistakes.

I just want to make out with her..

Another reason I post this is because I get very nervous during dates (like most ppl on this forum).....I guess I may be outcome orientated.

Thanks to those that provided meaningful advice

 

[Ryan]

Dont have time for a fully detailed FR, but the highlight of the date was:

HER: "I see what you are trying to do, I'm going to go with it"
ME: "Just go with it"

Then we kissed for like 5min.... (anyone on here have a good link for kissing tips?)

I will type up a detailed FR tommorrow, tired now.

I was nervous as fukk, she wasnt that good looking, but meh...its practice.



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