"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Preparing for a LTR Burial

Tenacity

Banned
Joined
Jun 23, 2014
Messages
3,890
Reaction score
2,160
I always feel like laughing when I see your random bulls**t posts about raising your voice about how things are unfair. Nothing will change and I guarantee it. You might as well cut your balls off and join a monastery if you really wanna make a statement.
I get what you are saying, but to me YOUR way is the easy way out.

I believe in walking and chewing gum at the same time, that is, striving to achieve the most I can out of life WHILE trying to fix whatever wrongs I can in this world for "the next generation". You don't have to join me, that's your prerogative.

I have plans in place to begin different types of grassroots efforts, working with current MRAs, Divorce Corp, etc., to try to do whatever I can to make some progress within areas like Family Court. Will I make any progress? I believe I will, MRAs and associations like Divorce Corp have ALREADY made a lot of changes to the system, so these efforts are not going to the wayside like you proclaim.

Your faulty notion of, "The world is just how it is, you can't change it, just accept it...." is exactly that, faulty. The world is what we make it to be, and when you see injustice but sit back, say nothing, do nothing, don't fund organizations that are fighting it, don't lend your voice to fighting it, then in my opinion you are in support of the injustice. Like Plato said, in your silence you are giving consent.

It's why I told TicTac (which caused him to flip the hell out) that he might as well throw on a cape and be a white knight. Because when you sit up here, having gone through the Family Court and been ripped off like he says, but NOT spend more time helping MRA related associations implement change in this screwed up system....in my opinion, you are consenting and in support of the bullshyt in the system.

Furthermore, when MGTOWs and MRAs are continually attacked BY OTHER MEN for calling out women on stupid behavior and trying to get them to accept responsibility, to me, those other men are consenting that the behavior of said women was in some part "okay".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Tictac

Banned
Joined
Jul 28, 2009
Messages
3,668
Reaction score
1,244
Location
North America, probably an airport
I get what you are saying, but to me YOUR way is the easy way out.

I believe in walking and chewing gum at the same time, that is, striving to achieve the most I can out of life WHILE trying to fix whatever wrongs I can in this world for "the next generation". You don't have to join me, that's your prerogative.

I have plans in place to begin different types of grassroots efforts, working with current MRAs, Divorce Corp, etc., to try to do whatever I can to make some progress within areas like Family Court. Will I make any progress? I believe I will, MRAs and associations like Divorce Corp have ALREADY made a lot of changes to the system, so these efforts are not going to the wayside like you proclaim.

Your faulty notion of, "The world is just how it is, you can't change it, just accept it...." is exactly that, faulty. The world is what we make it to be, and when you see injustice but sit back, say nothing, do nothing, don't fund organizations that are fighting it, don't lend your voice to fighting it, then in my opinion you are in support of the injustice. Like Plato said, in your silence you are giving consent.

It's why I told TicTac (which caused him to flip the hell out) that he might as well throw on a cape and be a white knight. Because when you sit up here, having gone through the Family Court and been ripped off like he says, but NOT spend more time helping MRA related associations implement change in this screwed up system....in my opinion, you are consenting and in support of the bullshyt in the system.

Furthermore, when MGTOWs and MRAs are continually attacked BY OTHER MEN for calling out women on stupid behavior and trying to get them to accept responsibility, to me, those other men are consenting that the behavior of said women was in some part "okay".
Humina, humina, humina.... Gynocentrism.... Humina, humina, humina.... Feminism... Humina, humina, humina.... White Knights....

This is what you consider "doing something" - whining like a little girl. You do NOTHING but gripe. Now THAT is some bullshyt.

You 'have plans'. You will do nothing because all you do is shirk and whine.
 

Tenacity

Banned
Joined
Jun 23, 2014
Messages
3,890
Reaction score
2,160
You 'have plans'. You will do nothing because all you do is shirk and whine.
I will post updates on this forum on my grassroots efforts and participation efforts for all to see. Hopefully it will inspire more of you (especially people like YOU who have been ripped off) to participate as well.
 

l_e_g_e_n_d

Banned
Joined
Oct 13, 2015
Messages
515
Reaction score
358
Tenacity, I admire your passion but on one breath you create a thread "I have anger issues/I don't know what to do" where you profess that you need serious help or else ... Then on the other breath you want to orchestrate for men's rights. Do you see where you have already lost 90% of your audience?

Coming to SoSuave without working out your kinks won't fix your anger issues.

Orchestrating a revolt for men's rights won't fix your anger issues.

Fixing a misaligned court system won't fix your anger issues.

Because ... when it is all said and done, the smoke is clear, and it's quiet again, who are you still left with ...

YOU.
 
Last edited:

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
For the greatest tangible and lasting results, both in yourself and out in the world, move beyond focusing on what you are against and instead focus entirely on what you INTEND, to ACTUALLY, create more of.

Words will not touch how MASSIVELY this will change your entire experience and the RESULTS you ACTUALLY experience.

The benefits are waiting for you, if you choose to have them. Or not, if that is what you prefer instead.

Choose YOUR FOCUS wisely!
He's right. Focus on what you are trying to achieve, it's very hard when you have things in your life causing you stress or pain or use a lot of time. But it must be done.

Most of our focus gets distorted focusing on the things we are upset about, instead of focusing on forging forward and making new progress.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top