"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tenacity

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I always feel like laughing when I see your random bulls**t posts about raising your voice about how things are unfair. Nothing will change and I guarantee it. You might as well cut your balls off and join a monastery if you really wanna make a statement.
I get what you are saying, but to me YOUR way is the easy way out.

I believe in walking and chewing gum at the same time, that is, striving to achieve the most I can out of life WHILE trying to fix whatever wrongs I can in this world for "the next generation". You don't have to join me, that's your prerogative.

I have plans in place to begin different types of grassroots efforts, working with current MRAs, Divorce Corp, etc., to try to do whatever I can to make some progress within areas like Family Court. Will I make any progress? I believe I will, MRAs and associations like Divorce Corp have ALREADY made a lot of changes to the system, so these efforts are not going to the wayside like you proclaim.

Your faulty notion of, "The world is just how it is, you can't change it, just accept it...." is exactly that, faulty. The world is what we make it to be, and when you see injustice but sit back, say nothing, do nothing, don't fund organizations that are fighting it, don't lend your voice to fighting it, then in my opinion you are in support of the injustice. Like Plato said, in your silence you are giving consent.

It's why I told TicTac (which caused him to flip the hell out) that he might as well throw on a cape and be a white knight. Because when you sit up here, having gone through the Family Court and been ripped off like he says, but NOT spend more time helping MRA related associations implement change in this screwed up system....in my opinion, you are consenting and in support of the bullshyt in the system.

Furthermore, when MGTOWs and MRAs are continually attacked BY OTHER MEN for calling out women on stupid behavior and trying to get them to accept responsibility, to me, those other men are consenting that the behavior of said women was in some part "okay".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tictac

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I get what you are saying, but to me YOUR way is the easy way out.

I believe in walking and chewing gum at the same time, that is, striving to achieve the most I can out of life WHILE trying to fix whatever wrongs I can in this world for "the next generation". You don't have to join me, that's your prerogative.

I have plans in place to begin different types of grassroots efforts, working with current MRAs, Divorce Corp, etc., to try to do whatever I can to make some progress within areas like Family Court. Will I make any progress? I believe I will, MRAs and associations like Divorce Corp have ALREADY made a lot of changes to the system, so these efforts are not going to the wayside like you proclaim.

Your faulty notion of, "The world is just how it is, you can't change it, just accept it...." is exactly that, faulty. The world is what we make it to be, and when you see injustice but sit back, say nothing, do nothing, don't fund organizations that are fighting it, don't lend your voice to fighting it, then in my opinion you are in support of the injustice. Like Plato said, in your silence you are giving consent.

It's why I told TicTac (which caused him to flip the hell out) that he might as well throw on a cape and be a white knight. Because when you sit up here, having gone through the Family Court and been ripped off like he says, but NOT spend more time helping MRA related associations implement change in this screwed up system....in my opinion, you are consenting and in support of the bullshyt in the system.

Furthermore, when MGTOWs and MRAs are continually attacked BY OTHER MEN for calling out women on stupid behavior and trying to get them to accept responsibility, to me, those other men are consenting that the behavior of said women was in some part "okay".
Humina, humina, humina.... Gynocentrism.... Humina, humina, humina.... Feminism... Humina, humina, humina.... White Knights....

This is what you consider "doing something" - whining like a little girl. You do NOTHING but gripe. Now THAT is some bullshyt.

You 'have plans'. You will do nothing because all you do is shirk and whine.
 

Tenacity

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You 'have plans'. You will do nothing because all you do is shirk and whine.
I will post updates on this forum on my grassroots efforts and participation efforts for all to see. Hopefully it will inspire more of you (especially people like YOU who have been ripped off) to participate as well.
 

l_e_g_e_n_d

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Tenacity, I admire your passion but on one breath you create a thread "I have anger issues/I don't know what to do" where you profess that you need serious help or else ... Then on the other breath you want to orchestrate for men's rights. Do you see where you have already lost 90% of your audience?

Coming to SoSuave without working out your kinks won't fix your anger issues.

Orchestrating a revolt for men's rights won't fix your anger issues.

Fixing a misaligned court system won't fix your anger issues.

Because ... when it is all said and done, the smoke is clear, and it's quiet again, who are you still left with ...

YOU.
 
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For the greatest tangible and lasting results, both in yourself and out in the world, move beyond focusing on what you are against and instead focus entirely on what you INTEND, to ACTUALLY, create more of.

Words will not touch how MASSIVELY this will change your entire experience and the RESULTS you ACTUALLY experience.

The benefits are waiting for you, if you choose to have them. Or not, if that is what you prefer instead.

Choose YOUR FOCUS wisely!
He's right. Focus on what you are trying to achieve, it's very hard when you have things in your life causing you stress or pain or use a lot of time. But it must be done.

Most of our focus gets distorted focusing on the things we are upset about, instead of focusing on forging forward and making new progress.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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