"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Preparing for a first date

WrEcKLeSS2000

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Hey all,


It has been a long time since I've been out on a date. Its always ended with me getting friend zoned. I'm looking to change that.

I got this chicks number from a dating site and I'm planning on calling her tonight to set up a date for the weekend.

I'm going to tell her that we are going to meet up for ice cream.

Here are my questions:

Is it better to arrange a night time date or day time? Keep in mind this is the first date. Hopefully she looks good in person lol. You never know with online dating. From her pictures, I would say she is about a 7.5 with a good body.

How do I create/build attraction so she doesn't friend zone me?

Also, how do I know if I should go in for a kiss?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jurry

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Best way to prepare for a first date:

A. Dont spend any amount of time preparing (mentally or physically) for it other than getting dressed and going to the date. She is lucky to get a date with you, you have other things going on in your life, you dont need her or her approval.

If none of the above are accurate to your situation (i.e. you're a total beta pvssy with no options), then you mimic the above by

B. Setting up 3 or 4 other dates so you actually DO have options and other things to do. This way you will not be overwhelmed mentally by the prospect of one beautiful lady and tranform into a supplicating tampon (friendzone).

It is of course possible for supplicating tampons to get laid, however it will generally come at greater and greater risk to your well-being, as she realizes how much power she has over you and gradually crushes your soul.
 

mangotot

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Screw Ice cream. Ask her to come round your house instead. The excuse is you got an amazing view through your window and she should see it. When she arrives, relax in your room with her and take it from there.

You can have ice cream at home. It will be cheaper as well.
 

Comatozed

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I think asking a giirl you are yet to meet in person round to your place is a long shot tbh
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VladPatton

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Tell her you wanna go back to your "condominium" to try on a few different condom brands you're undecided about. Kind of like a costume fitting if you will. Insist you value her opinion in regards to quality, material, color, and of course fit. Within hours, the fun will ensue and sex will be on her mind.

No female can resist the condominium condom-fitting pre-copulation play.
 

MartinARMT

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For a first date I like to do something I find fun and enjoyable. You appear high value when having fun.
 
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