"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prepare for war (Mind dump again.)

Purefilth

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‘If It is Peace you seek, then prepare for war.’ – Vegetius

This, Gentlemen – is a quote to remember.

You want to settle down with a girl, marry her and have a family? Prepare for the bloodiest battle that you shall ever see then. It is a fight that many may never see the end of – Myself included.

Its not a battle that you need to fight with someone else though – it’s a battle that you must have WITHIN YOURSELF.

Whats up? – You Don’t get it?

Ok to help explain – Here’s MY Battle:

Ive come to the realisation that LTR’s are not for me. I’m just not built like that. Why? I ve had extremely pretty, non slvtty girls in LTRs with me – TWICE. I couldn’t cope. Dealing with one person on a daily basis – no matter how cute, funny Hawt or wild in the sack they are – eventually I just get bored.

Just as you get bored you realise its because you have nothing in common with this person, and you had been keeping them around out of convenience only. And once the realisation has struck another kicks in.

“I have to get rid of her”

And how can you do such a thing without breaking her heart? The poor girls been trying to nudge Ideas about marriage into conversation. :crackup: NaNaNaNanevergonnahappen!

You Cant. After this time and she’s set her heart on you. You gamed her, you worked at keeping her, You have her completely! And now you’re bored. A$$hole, right?

Maybe not – Could be I knew ages beforehand that they weren’t for me. That I should’ve broken it off. But there was enough AFC in me to overthink and make up insecurities. Insecurities like –

“What if I never find another girl”

“What if nobody else will want me”:crackup:

Yeah right!

Bvllsh!t, I know, but these are little things that develop when you only have the one girl around and as a man you need to step up and face these tricks that your mind plays on you. Stare them down. Don’t be too afraid to dump a girl early on – The less time you waste on a girl the better for both parties involved.

Allow yourself to have fun with a girl because its fun, not just fun because you’re with a girl.

If It isn’t fun normally with the lads – that’s your first clue that you’re supplicating already. That’s why we advocate here on dates .
“Do Something YOU want to do ”
If nobody got that before – that’s a reason why.





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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You get bored of anything eventually if you do it long enough. That's simply how we function.

Even if you meet your 100% perfect match , given enough time , you will start craving diversity again.
 

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Why not do something new you both can enjoy? These sound like the kind of issues you could communicate. Is there something wrong with telling your woman that your bored?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purefilth

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DragonBlood said:
Why not do something new you both can enjoy? These sound like the kind of issues you could communicate. Is there something wrong with telling your woman that your bored?
In an LTR - Yeah, Try it buddy, see if its worth the headache.
 
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