"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prep Is Back

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JUst thought I'd drop a quick note and let everyone know that PREP is back in.

I recently started wearing Lacoste Polos with a long sleeve shirt underneath, pulled up to the elbows.. a nice pair of designer jeans and a sporty pair of shoes. I have gotten compliments from over half a dozen women in the last week or so. The style is simple and clean... but if you are at least above average looking, it will make you look even better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, seriously when did it ever go out? Prep has always been in style to some degree. I've been wearing prep for a year or so now and it's worked well for me. Girls like a man who knows style and how to dress.. unless you're trying to attract some other type of girl who might not be into the "prep" style.
 

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I still for the life of me, can't tell what the hell prep is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its a good style for sure. i adopted it about a year ago, when i realized I HAD no style...It's good for everyone too. For guys with excellent physiques, you can wear a nice tight polo to show off your oh-so-hot chest, and for dudes like me who dont feel like showing off a bit of a beer gut, its very good at masking flaws without being too baggy.

Would you be so kind as to post some pictures? I'm curious (especially about the shoes).

Also, anyone else thing we should have a Fashion sub-forum? A good wardrobe is essential to being a man, I feel.
 

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Looking good is absolutely essential to being a man and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

YOu must alwways look good because you never know who you will run into. If you saw your ex at the supermarket and you looked like sh1t, wouldnt you feel embarrased? Thought so. Always look fly.

Originally posted by kel
Its a good style for sure. i adopted it about a year ago, when i realized I HAD no style...It's good for everyone too. For guys with excellent physiques, you can wear a nice tight polo to show off your oh-so-hot chest, and for dudes like me who dont feel like showing off a bit of a beer gut, its very good at masking flaws without being too baggy.

Would you be so kind as to post some pictures? I'm curious (especially about the shoes).

Also, anyone else thing we should have a Fashion sub-forum? A good wardrobe is essential to being a man, I feel.
 

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I guess i do a little bit a prep but i'd say im more of a "classy" type. Im not into those kind of shoes, if i really dress up nice i'll weare dress shoes. I do like some of the clothes but i think 2 many ppl dress taht way where i am....looking all cool and stuff......im just like........so fake and i dont want to look like that at all. thats why i avoid diesel with a passion cause all the guys i know are like "yo yo biches and hoes! lets steal shoes!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You JUST started wearing Lacoste polos? Man, I been rockin Lacoste, Polo by Ralph Lauren (not that CHAPS/Polo Jeans junk) since...damn, I can't even remember, it was sometime back in the '90s.

My average Spring fit:
Lacoste polo
Diesel/Gap/Express Jeans
Exclusive Nikes you haven't seen before

Of course I also rock tee's that you don't find in the mall

You have to switch it up...but always look fly
 
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