"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pregnancy scare, help?

Jokerlsk

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my gf's last period came april 16 and ended april 22. We had sex for the first time on the 23rd and the last time on May 13. We used a condom and i wasn't close to orgasm and we stopped after i made her orgasm. The second time I noticed precum on the inside of the condom towards the base and i'm afraid it may have leaked. I did orgasm that morning but i also urinated many times before sex. She took 3 pregnancy tests, the latest one being june 7th, and she had been 2 weeks late at that time, and it had also been over 20 days since the last time we had sex. We're both extremely worried she's pregnant despite the tests. She has not experienced any symptoms
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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then she probably isn't pregnant. those test are pretty accurate
 

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You would need to pop a very large load right around the middle of her cycle, to have a small chance to knock her up; that's if you got the super sperm. Dude, don't worry about it. Chicks are irregular for a number of reasons. You tookt he precautions and almost pretty safe.
 

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She was almost this late before her last period too and we hadn't had sex yet. The fact that she is in fact a month late scares me. She's worried also. She literally has no symptoms at all and 3 negative tests, but she's still worried and it worries me
 

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from now on id use condoms with spermicaide in them , i can tell your the worrying type like me lol its always better to leave as little room for a mistake as possible
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The funny thing is that the more she worries, the more messed up her regular cycle will be. Good luck.
 

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She's literally one month late and she was maybe 3 weeks late last time. Idk why she's so irregular and I honestly don't think the tests two weeks ago were wrong. Shed be over a month pregnant, and she has no symptoms. I'm worried that maybe we had sex in the middle of her cycle because er cycle is so irregular. She had only had sex one time before me and that was over a year ago so maybe the frequent hooking up and the sex through off her cycle? She has a hormonal imbalance as well. I'm just worried. Most people aren't this late
 

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And it was an offbrand condom... But it met all of the FDAs requirements so idk
 
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