"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Pregnancy question to women ages 56
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
alphamailman
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what the crap man?
since when do you go around believing just anyone's line about not getting pregnant? i don't care if she is 20 or 60. if you do not want to bring babies into this world , you do not let anyone else control your birth control options. as a man, you are limited on said options.... always, always, always, wrap your manhood with a condom.
does not matter that she was having sex for 30 years with someone and didn't get pregnant... for all you know - he could have been sterile!
does not matter that she said one of her tubes were tied.
1. you have no proof unless you are superman with some xray vision
2. what about the other tube?
does it matter if she said she was maybe going thru menopause?
no! because what if she isn't?
my grandmother was still having children while her older children were giving her grandchildren. she wasn't on some sort of fertility medication. that sort of stuff really happens to people.
and regardless of unwanted pregnancies.... what about stds?
menopause and a tied flaopian tube is not going to make syphillis disappear.
if you continue to carry on this way, you will learn the hard way.
wrap your junk or catch the junk.
/end of rant.