"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pregnancy makes women attention crazed, stereotypical shells.

Slash Dolo

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At 27 you'd think I wouldn't see a plethora of girls even younger than I on their first, second, even third child. You'd be wrong. Women as young as 18 are having children left and right.

There's nothing wrong with procreating, and I'm not bashing anyone here who has kids. But in particular over the past several years I've been noticing that once a woman has a child she goes absolutely nuts raking in the attention a kid brings. The child, an extension of the woman, gives them an avenue to get even MORE attention from society, friends and their baby daddy--even more than when they were much thinner and without the stretch marks. The problem is... there seems to be an obsession here. It's drug like to them--a dopamine overload.

The woman will share breastfeeding pictures, pictures of her baby as well as photos of other women giving birth on her Facebook wall constantly. In public she'll yammer on and on about something her baby did and never stop. All topics lead back to her child. You can't have a normal conversation. You can't talk about anything remotely interesting because it all leads back to one thing: her, her parenthood and her offspring. They have become, as the title of the thread states, attention crazed shells.

These were once fairly interesting women. A lot of them I'd have sex with before they'd get knocked up by some dude a few months later, and then like clockwork, they'd become this cringey, walking husk that only talks about themselves.

I don't plan to ever get married. In a lot of ways I've thrown out conventional relationships. And I don't plan to ever have children--especially after seeing what the average woman turns into.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At 27 you'd think I wouldn't see a plethora of girls even younger than I on their first, second, even third child. You'd be wrong. Women as young as 18 are having children left and right.

There's nothing wrong with procreating, and I'm not bashing anyone here who has kids. But in particular over the past several years I've been noticing that once a woman has a child she goes absolutely nuts raking in the attention a kid brings. The child, an extension of the woman, gives them an avenue to get even MORE attention from society, friends and their baby daddy--even more than when they were much thinner and without the stretch marks. The problem is... there seems to be an obsession here. It's drug like to them--a dopamine overload.

The woman will share breastfeeding pictures, pictures of her baby as well as photos of other women giving birth on her Facebook wall constantly. In public she'll yammer on and on about something her baby did and never stop. All topics lead back to her child. You can't have a normal conversation. You can't talk about anything remotely interesting because it all leads back to one thing: her, her parenthood and her offspring. They have become, as the title of the thread states, attention crazed shells.

These were once fairly interesting women. A lot of them I'd have sex with before they'd get knocked up by some dude a few months later, and then like clockwork, they'd become this cringey, walking husk that only talks about themselves.

I don't plan to ever get married. In a lot of ways I've thrown out conventional relationships. And I don't plan to ever have children--especially after seeing what the average woman turns into.

Noticed the same. It's gets on the nerve easily to single people (including female)

Maybe when we have kids, we will be the same.

However, I dont understand why you want to poster your kids has window to your private life.

Eternalize all moments, yes, but make it for attention? Hell no
 
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