"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pregaming Nights

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How many of you guys pregame nights out to like teen clubs or house parties? Like take some shots before hand so ur not so uptight and let the nerves loose? If so, what kind of shots do you take and how many to loosen you up, but not get you drunk. Just to get you feeling confident a bit more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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familyguyfan

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I don't do it a lot, but I have before. 3 or 4 shots is usually a good amount to get you going before you start out for the night.
 

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The trick to being a real DJ is not even considering alcohol to help with your nerves.
If you do this, cut it down slowly and let the game run free.
 

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Yeah, well before I go to a party I usually get kind of nervous. I've never done it but was wondering if it'd help.
 

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Sometimes i have a couple of beers. It doesn't do much except make you more funny and lively.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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familyguyfan

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Originally posted by MrS
The trick to being a real DJ is not even considering alcohol to help with your nerves.
If you do this, cut it down slowly and let the game run free.
Well it doesn't even just have to do with being a better DJ. It's really more just because it'll make the beginning of the evening a little more fun, when it would generally start out slow.
 
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