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How many of you guys pregame nights out to like teen clubs or house parties? Like take some shots before hand so ur not so uptight and let the nerves loose? If so, what kind of shots do you take and how many to loosen you up, but not get you drunk. Just to get you feeling confident a bit more.
 

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I don't do it a lot, but I have before. 3 or 4 shots is usually a good amount to get you going before you start out for the night.
 
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The trick to being a real DJ is not even considering alcohol to help with your nerves.
If you do this, cut it down slowly and let the game run free.
 
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Yeah, well before I go to a party I usually get kind of nervous. I've never done it but was wondering if it'd help.
 
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Sometimes i have a couple of beers. It doesn't do much except make you more funny and lively.
 

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Originally posted by MrS
The trick to being a real DJ is not even considering alcohol to help with your nerves.
If you do this, cut it down slowly and let the game run free.
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Well it doesn't even just have to do with being a better DJ. It's really more just because it'll make the beginning of the evening a little more fun, when it would generally start out slow.
 
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