"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Preferred Age Group For Dating

Dynamited

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Hey guys

Would like to know if you have a preferred age group when it comes dating?

I'm 43 and I prefer girls between the range of 28 - 32. That seems to be my sweet spot.

I've dated much younger girls and it felt like I'm going out with my niece.

I've also gone out with women in their late 30s but I don't seem that attracted to them.

Out of curiosity, would you be willing to be in a LTR with a divorcee with no kids?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lamath

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At 38 id say 27-33 would be ideal, however its not all about how they look so i would also go younger or older.
I feel awkward trying to hook up with someone much younger or older.

I mostly dgaf about age or a mom or not, for me its 50/50 look and character.
Obv character can be very hard to judge.
 

speed dawg

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All. I'd date anyone as long as I was sure I could keep the frame. There's no one size fits all. Sometimes people are just in different stages of life.
 

Who Dares Win

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Im 33 and usually go after girls 24-28, any younger I cant really relate while older doesnt allow me to be properly aroused.

In your case I would do the same.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chi Town

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What's the youngest girl you ever dated?

21 is a good age, nothing beats a fresh 18 year old or 19 year old though, that might be too young for ya taste since you in you're 30s, I'm only 25
 

Chi Town

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I'm only 25 so anything 18-21

I have no interest in women over the age of 23, though I will still fvck them I'm not looking for anything past 23
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Hey guys

Would like to know if you have a preferred age group when it comes dating?

I'm 43 and I prefer girls between the range of 28 - 32. That seems to be my sweet spot.

I've dated much younger girls and it felt like I'm going out with my niece.

I've also gone out with women in their late 30s but I don't seem that attracted to them.

Out of curiosity, would you be willing to be in a LTR with a divorcee with no kids?
30. Aim is top form SMV 18-23.

Everything is practice otherwise.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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At 38 id say 27-33 would be ideal, however its not all about how they look so i would also go younger or older.
I feel awkward trying to hook up with someone much younger or older.

I mostly dgaf about age or a mom or not, for me its 50/50 look and character.
Obv character can be very hard to judge.
I think you can go younge4 playboy lulz big ups regardless
 
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