"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Preferred Age Group For Dating

Dynamited

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Hey guys

Would like to know if you have a preferred age group when it comes dating?

I'm 43 and I prefer girls between the range of 28 - 32. That seems to be my sweet spot.

I've dated much younger girls and it felt like I'm going out with my niece.

I've also gone out with women in their late 30s but I don't seem that attracted to them.

Out of curiosity, would you be willing to be in a LTR with a divorcee with no kids?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lamath

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At 38 id say 27-33 would be ideal, however its not all about how they look so i would also go younger or older.
I feel awkward trying to hook up with someone much younger or older.

I mostly dgaf about age or a mom or not, for me its 50/50 look and character.
Obv character can be very hard to judge.
 

speed dawg

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All. I'd date anyone as long as I was sure I could keep the frame. There's no one size fits all. Sometimes people are just in different stages of life.
 

Who Dares Win

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Im 33 and usually go after girls 24-28, any younger I cant really relate while older doesnt allow me to be properly aroused.

In your case I would do the same.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chi Town

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What's the youngest girl you ever dated?

21 is a good age, nothing beats a fresh 18 year old or 19 year old though, that might be too young for ya taste since you in you're 30s, I'm only 25
 

Chi Town

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I'm only 25 so anything 18-21

I have no interest in women over the age of 23, though I will still fvck them I'm not looking for anything past 23
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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Hey guys

Would like to know if you have a preferred age group when it comes dating?

I'm 43 and I prefer girls between the range of 28 - 32. That seems to be my sweet spot.

I've dated much younger girls and it felt like I'm going out with my niece.

I've also gone out with women in their late 30s but I don't seem that attracted to them.

Out of curiosity, would you be willing to be in a LTR with a divorcee with no kids?
30. Aim is top form SMV 18-23.

Everything is practice otherwise.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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At 38 id say 27-33 would be ideal, however its not all about how they look so i would also go younger or older.
I feel awkward trying to hook up with someone much younger or older.

I mostly dgaf about age or a mom or not, for me its 50/50 look and character.
Obv character can be very hard to judge.
I think you can go younge4 playboy lulz big ups regardless
 
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