"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Precum on fingers = pregnancy?

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Hey guys I was making out with my lady and I felt precum through my boxers and rubbed it on my fingers and a little later I brushed upon my g/f's vagina. Now I didn't go all the way into her vagina and it was only precum through my boxers, what are the odds that she'll get pregnant? Should I be really worried about this? Most ppl have told me the odds are highly unlikely. Can anyone shed more light?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Man, it sounds like if you're getting precum with just making out, you'll explode when she touches your penis with her pinky finger.

lol. I'm sorry, I'm not of much help, but that's my daily haha moment for you.
 

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I dont think precum even has any sperm in it. I could be wrong though.
 

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YoungJuan said:
Hey guys I was making out with my lady and I felt precum through my boxers and rubbed it on my fingers and a little later I brushed upon my g/f's vagina. Now I didn't go all the way into her vagina and it was only precum through my boxers, what are the odds that she'll get pregnant? Should I be really worried about this? Most ppl have told me the odds are highly unlikely. Can anyone shed more light?
if you only brushed upon her vagin then I wouldn't be worried. Go take a Valium and chill out. Life is good
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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While there are some sperm in the fluids released before ejaculation, their numbers are extremely low. There are some, which is why if you mess up putting on the condom (putting it on backwards or something) you have to put a new one. However, the odds are incredibly low that the sperm will even make their way inside the vagina if it only came into contact with the outside; the chances of pregnency are next to none. You're about as likely to win the lotery while winning at the final table of the World Series of Poker and getting hit by lightning.

Be careful (ie, don't stick your fingers in your girl if you have "precum" on them) but don't worry too much about the situation you posted about.
 

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Holy kick me nuts. Fred Da Head, we're in the same city.
Indeed, and we even have the same person signing our paychecks, too, though yours is probably much bigger than mine. Sigh.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hmmm...the sheer fact I have this sinking feeling you know where I work, with no related links within my profile.....

Sweet, what are you up to this patty day?
 

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Actually you mentionned in some other thread that you're Army. That's about all I know, really. I just assumed you're not at RMC, so you're most likely a sig or something such from up on base--hence you make more money than I do.

As for St Patty's day.. probably not much, some beers at the mess and I'll see where the masses are going, most likely. What about you?
 

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I'm a sig, up at 772. What does that have to do with money? :D

My assumptions are that there is going to be a priming party at someone's house, and everyone will probably hit either the Grizzly or Stages, since we work Saturday. Should be fun times!

Yourself?
 

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Have you ever looked at the pay scales? Even a no-hook private makes more than us RMC people, dammit!

Sucks that you guys work Saturday though. I get the whole weekend off... sortof. Besides, this is RMC, we get drunk for any reason. "Hey, it's Tuesday, let's get wasted!"

Can't believe you guys hit the Grizz, though. It's full of cougars! (Oh, wait, is that really a bad thing?)
 

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Meh...I guess you're right.

Hell, I was on courses here, and every day was getting smashed day.

Bahaha...we get to shoot rifles Saturday, drink our faces off in the night, and shoot machine guns Sunday. Someone thought that out REAL well.....

Man, the Grizz is fine. Younger girls hit that place too, and I find it a little nicer then Stages. (but hell, what's the problem with dancing with MILFs too?). If you hit that place up and we're there, look for the guy probably in a green T-Shirt making out with a girl, that'll most likely be me.

I can't wait until I get back on contract with CFSCE though, then I'll have money to go more then...once or twice a month, muhaha. (and Bikini Contest....ohh la la)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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