"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Precum on fingers = pregnancy?

YoungJuan

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Hey guys I was making out with my lady and I felt precum through my boxers and rubbed it on my fingers and a little later I brushed upon my g/f's vagina. Now I didn't go all the way into her vagina and it was only precum through my boxers, what are the odds that she'll get pregnant? Should I be really worried about this? Most ppl have told me the odds are highly unlikely. Can anyone shed more light?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man, it sounds like if you're getting precum with just making out, you'll explode when she touches your penis with her pinky finger.

lol. I'm sorry, I'm not of much help, but that's my daily haha moment for you.
 

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I dont think precum even has any sperm in it. I could be wrong though.
 

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YoungJuan said:
Hey guys I was making out with my lady and I felt precum through my boxers and rubbed it on my fingers and a little later I brushed upon my g/f's vagina. Now I didn't go all the way into her vagina and it was only precum through my boxers, what are the odds that she'll get pregnant? Should I be really worried about this? Most ppl have told me the odds are highly unlikely. Can anyone shed more light?
if you only brushed upon her vagin then I wouldn't be worried. Go take a Valium and chill out. Life is good
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fred Da Head

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While there are some sperm in the fluids released before ejaculation, their numbers are extremely low. There are some, which is why if you mess up putting on the condom (putting it on backwards or something) you have to put a new one. However, the odds are incredibly low that the sperm will even make their way inside the vagina if it only came into contact with the outside; the chances of pregnency are next to none. You're about as likely to win the lotery while winning at the final table of the World Series of Poker and getting hit by lightning.

Be careful (ie, don't stick your fingers in your girl if you have "precum" on them) but don't worry too much about the situation you posted about.
 

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Holy kick me nuts. Fred Da Head, we're in the same city.
Indeed, and we even have the same person signing our paychecks, too, though yours is probably much bigger than mine. Sigh.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hmmm...the sheer fact I have this sinking feeling you know where I work, with no related links within my profile.....

Sweet, what are you up to this patty day?
 

Fred Da Head

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Actually you mentionned in some other thread that you're Army. That's about all I know, really. I just assumed you're not at RMC, so you're most likely a sig or something such from up on base--hence you make more money than I do.

As for St Patty's day.. probably not much, some beers at the mess and I'll see where the masses are going, most likely. What about you?
 

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I'm a sig, up at 772. What does that have to do with money? :D

My assumptions are that there is going to be a priming party at someone's house, and everyone will probably hit either the Grizzly or Stages, since we work Saturday. Should be fun times!

Yourself?
 

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Have you ever looked at the pay scales? Even a no-hook private makes more than us RMC people, dammit!

Sucks that you guys work Saturday though. I get the whole weekend off... sortof. Besides, this is RMC, we get drunk for any reason. "Hey, it's Tuesday, let's get wasted!"

Can't believe you guys hit the Grizz, though. It's full of cougars! (Oh, wait, is that really a bad thing?)
 

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Meh...I guess you're right.

Hell, I was on courses here, and every day was getting smashed day.

Bahaha...we get to shoot rifles Saturday, drink our faces off in the night, and shoot machine guns Sunday. Someone thought that out REAL well.....

Man, the Grizz is fine. Younger girls hit that place too, and I find it a little nicer then Stages. (but hell, what's the problem with dancing with MILFs too?). If you hit that place up and we're there, look for the guy probably in a green T-Shirt making out with a girl, that'll most likely be me.

I can't wait until I get back on contract with CFSCE though, then I'll have money to go more then...once or twice a month, muhaha. (and Bikini Contest....ohh la la)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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