Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Oh thanks for the vote of confidence... :woo:Bvbidd said:... She'll probally even flake on ya.
Yeah. Real nice help there, BvbiddFrancisco d'Anconia said:Oh thanks for the vote of confidence... :woo:
I just had a strange epiphany (alright, it was just a brain-fart) about phone calls and coffee dates, to me it seems that a phone call to someone who you know kinda well (you've at least had face-to-face rapport) a bit overkill. It's just coffee, not a dinner date. Why not ask her in person, just casual y'know?slitherjef said:Yeah. Real nice help there, Bvbidd
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Actualy it does make sense.Francisco d'Anconia said:I just had a strange epiphany (alright, it was just a brain-fart) about phone calls and coffee dates, to me it seems that a phone call to someone who you know kinda well (you've at least had face-to-face rapport) a bit overkill. It's just coffee, not a dinner date. Why not ask her in person, just casual y'know?
The telephone thing seems like it would be for making less off the cuff type plans, things a bit more weighty than just coffee. Maybe that's why it seems kinda strange to phone for something as simple as coffee. Does that make any sense?
Good point! I like that idea.The Inside Man said:Just feel the vibe, whip open the phone and roll with it.