Chicks Just Dig Me
Don Juan
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So my senior year is almost over. I am a very social kid, very bright ranked in the top 30 in my class in a class of 200. I have around 800 kids in my school. I am in the middle range of popularity. My house is a very fun place to hang and I go to about 1/4 of the parties. I am a real funny kid, and I do average with the girls, even though I would like to do better. But there are some things I really wanna get right and prove upon before college:
1. Even though I am in the middle of the pack of popularity, kids still like to target me and pick on me constantly. I tried to ignore it, but it seems to never stop. Now, I come back with comebacks, which makes them shut up. But after my friends said I gotta lay off and not be so mean to them after I get attacked. It never stops. I get made fun of who I date, for me being very strong so they say I take steroids, or because I am naturally tanned that they call me black. I have trouble thinking quick on my feet, and sometimes my attacks may be too harsh. I don't know how to handle being called out and made fun of for how I talk (speed problem) or anything. I don't know how to stop this.
2. Even though I am in the top 25% of my class, I am seen as not a smart kid. Part of this problem is I like to be a funny kid, and sometimes I may end up like the clown. Not many people seem to take me seriously I guess. I wanna be able to be seen as a real bright kid like I am, but also we funny. I am entertaining and I guess people and my friends just see me as entertainment which I don't like. If I am not funny half the time, I feel like I may seem boring. How do I balance things out, being funny and real smart at the same time. I also have trouble answering questions in class sometimes. I never had this problem before. I get answers right sometimes, but when I get the quiz back I get an excellent grade, so kids just think something is up.
3. This may all add up because I still seem to care what some people think about me. Why do I think this? Because it spreads. If someone knows you, and they may tell another person that your not fun to be with or mean, so that makes a bad outlook on their part towards you. I don't wanna have this problem entering college so I want to clear this up.
So basically, I dont want to be a target all the time. I don't mind if its once in a while, and even if some ppl say they are joking, it never ends. Its been going on all this year. For a pretty average kid, I get busted on a lot and I don't like it. If it was rare, then fine. I want to be the kid who is seen as smart, but doesn't have to try too hard. And the kid who is funny, but gets stuff done when it needs to be done.
Any help guys?
1. Even though I am in the middle of the pack of popularity, kids still like to target me and pick on me constantly. I tried to ignore it, but it seems to never stop. Now, I come back with comebacks, which makes them shut up. But after my friends said I gotta lay off and not be so mean to them after I get attacked. It never stops. I get made fun of who I date, for me being very strong so they say I take steroids, or because I am naturally tanned that they call me black. I have trouble thinking quick on my feet, and sometimes my attacks may be too harsh. I don't know how to handle being called out and made fun of for how I talk (speed problem) or anything. I don't know how to stop this.
2. Even though I am in the top 25% of my class, I am seen as not a smart kid. Part of this problem is I like to be a funny kid, and sometimes I may end up like the clown. Not many people seem to take me seriously I guess. I wanna be able to be seen as a real bright kid like I am, but also we funny. I am entertaining and I guess people and my friends just see me as entertainment which I don't like. If I am not funny half the time, I feel like I may seem boring. How do I balance things out, being funny and real smart at the same time. I also have trouble answering questions in class sometimes. I never had this problem before. I get answers right sometimes, but when I get the quiz back I get an excellent grade, so kids just think something is up.
3. This may all add up because I still seem to care what some people think about me. Why do I think this? Because it spreads. If someone knows you, and they may tell another person that your not fun to be with or mean, so that makes a bad outlook on their part towards you. I don't wanna have this problem entering college so I want to clear this up.
So basically, I dont want to be a target all the time. I don't mind if its once in a while, and even if some ppl say they are joking, it never ends. Its been going on all this year. For a pretty average kid, I get busted on a lot and I don't like it. If it was rare, then fine. I want to be the kid who is seen as smart, but doesn't have to try too hard. And the kid who is funny, but gets stuff done when it needs to be done.
Any help guys?