"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pre-Bible Era

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Yeah, things were a lot better back then. It was a community we knew pretty much everybody. Right now it feels very impresonal.. that may be becase i haven't been here in a few years - but still.
When you get the chance read the old dj bible. you'll find it's VERY different from the new one. Much more quality material.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been on and off for the past while posting a few articles - now i have a feeling i'll be back for a while ;)... i might see if Allan will give me mod status again. That would be cool :)
 
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Originally posted by syncmaster
I've been on and off for the past while posting a few articles - now i have a feeling i'll be back for a while ;)... i might see if Allan will give me mod status again. That would be cool :)
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sync...I think that's a wonderful idea! You were a great moderator.
 
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Originally posted by syncmaster
I've been on and off for the past while posting a few articles - now i have a feeling i'll be back for a while ;)... i might see if Allan will give me mod status again. That would be cool :)
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Well....actually a spot has just opened up :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Paradox
Well....actually a spot has just opened up :rolleyes:
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syncmaster would be perfect for the job. He's done it before (and did a good job) and Allen already knows what kind of moderator he'd be.
 
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Greetings dood. Where teh fock have j00 been y0?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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u guys are vets!

I always look up to the old school people. Even though I was here when there was a bible, I was around long enough remember the old colors.
Back then I lived on the bible alone, no discussion forum. And I guess it was better that way, b/c the discussion forum is mainly a bunch of guys too lazy to read the bible.

Bring the gold back!!:cuss:
 
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I actually think we'd be better off if we got rid of the bible all together. That way instead of people always saying "go read the bible" and not helping each other it becomes more of a community again.
 
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Originally posted by syncmaster
I actually think we'd be better off if we got rid of the bible all together. That way instead of people always saying "go read the bible" and not helping each other it becomes more of a community again.
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I agree that it's better as a community thing. But I think people should read the bible first, then ask any unclear questions! B/c the bible is basically a bunch of discussion forum posts that have been selected as tips
 
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Hey Adam, good to see you back (yet again.)

Just PM Allen for the spot.

BTW: Go old yellow board color!
 
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