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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Teflon_Mcgee
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Don't even try to analyze the card. It doesn't matter at this point. She either LJBFed you or she didn't.
But if she did it's easy to see why.
Sleeping in the same bed and not ****ing is probably the worst move you could possibly make.
If you don't want to F her yet then avoid sleeping with her.
IF she was at all into you I GUARANTEE she was thinking, "What's wrong with this guy and why isn't he giving me crazy sex right now?!"
That doesn't mean you can't salvage it but you are one step closer to the freindzone. Next time you see her make a sexual move (as long as it's natural with the situation).
If she accepts then you know you haven't been LJBFed.
But if she did it's easy to see why.
Sleeping in the same bed and not ****ing is probably the worst move you could possibly make.
If you don't want to F her yet then avoid sleeping with her.
IF she was at all into you I GUARANTEE she was thinking, "What's wrong with this guy and why isn't he giving me crazy sex right now?!"
That doesn't mean you can't salvage it but you are one step closer to the freindzone. Next time you see her make a sexual move (as long as it's natural with the situation).
If she accepts then you know you haven't been LJBFed.
skip2mylou781
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wow that was THE most AFC thing u could do.........you were nto sexual the least bit.......just imagine if u threw sexuality into the mix with everything else, this woman would love u in every way!!!
by the way, did u 2 kiss/cuddle??
Teflon - they dont NEED to have sex, they just NEED to do somethin that shows them as more than just friends, kissing would do the trick
of course, if that were ME, we all kno wat i woulda done lol
by the way, did u 2 kiss/cuddle??
Teflon - they dont NEED to have sex, they just NEED to do somethin that shows them as more than just friends, kissing would do the trick
of course, if that were ME, we all kno wat i woulda done lol
Shiftkey
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If you don't sleep with her next time (as in not literally...), you will be in the friend's zone. You probably already are. Skip your gentlemanly bullsh1t. Women want to be fvcked.
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hey now shifty, as i said, if it were ME, i woudla ****ed her so good that shed b writing me a porn letter wantin me to **** her again..........but im just tellin this guy that if he made out with her at least, he didnt **** up COMPLETELY........and that note she wrote him, makes it sound like shes interested in somethin LTR, but yea shifty i agree that in that case, u GOTTA **** her
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Teflon_Mcgee
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Okay? So you're not worried about being LBJFed by this chick?
And you're trying to analyze what this line in this card could mean from a future girl you haven't met?
DON'T.
Just learn from this situation and you won't have to worry about getting LJBFed.
The problem here isn't that you didn't F her. I can understand that. I haven't hooked up with girls becuase of I didn't want to have to deal with the consiquences.
But I've never put myself in a situation where the NATURAL ORDER is to get sexual and then not. This is what you did. Unless you're dating a Mormon or a girl from 1950 then this is extremely unatractive and weird. Even if the girl doesn't want to move fast, assuming she has the slightest bit of experience with men, she will think it's weird.
BTW, to answer your question, that line from that card could be good or bad.
And you're trying to analyze what this line in this card could mean from a future girl you haven't met?
DON'T.
Just learn from this situation and you won't have to worry about getting LJBFed.
The problem here isn't that you didn't F her. I can understand that. I haven't hooked up with girls becuase of I didn't want to have to deal with the consiquences.
But I've never put myself in a situation where the NATURAL ORDER is to get sexual and then not. This is what you did. Unless you're dating a Mormon or a girl from 1950 then this is extremely unatractive and weird. Even if the girl doesn't want to move fast, assuming she has the slightest bit of experience with men, she will think it's weird.
BTW, to answer your question, that line from that card could be good or bad.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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You're in a good but precarious place with this woman. All signs says that she's interested (hell, she's "sleeping" with you) but in some instances it could derail into the LJBF zone, but there's no reason for you to worry (yet) as long as you progress your interactions.Count_Anthony_II said:
Being easy to talk to is a good thing, but your progression should be to the point of her being completely comfortable with you and her feeling comfortable with you taking the lead in the direction of the relationship.
DonJuanASU
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I would agree with Francisco. A women uses her feelings and emotions to make decisions. I know its not always the smartest thing, but in this case it could work out to your advantage. She is not looking for a man to be friends with she is looking for a partner, at 38 she is mature enough to realize that she will need to straighten out her love life in the near future.
Her being older, would make her look for sombody younger good looking and moderately successful. You being a gentleman is not hurting the situation, you are showing her that you are on the same level as her. She is looking for a mate and if thats what you would like to get out of it with her, continue on your path although proceed by giving her physical attention as well, the power of a man's touch can powerful to most women.
I would agree with Francisco. A women uses her feelings and emotions to make decisions. I know its not always the smartest thing, but in this case it could work out to your advantage. She is not looking for a man to be friends with she is looking for a partner, at 38 she is mature enough to realize that she will need to straighten out her love life in the near future.
Her being older, would make her look for sombody younger good looking and moderately successful. You being a gentleman is not hurting the situation, you are showing her that you are on the same level as her. She is looking for a mate and if thats what you would like to get out of it with her, continue on your path although proceed by giving her physical attention as well, the power of a man's touch can powerful to most women.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Shiftkey
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lmao, sorry I didn't mean "skip" as in you, I meant the definition (bypass, forget, move past, etc). I agreed with what you wrote.skip2mylou781 said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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Trust me, just because you can sleep with a woman it doesn't mean that you have to.Count_Anthony_II said:
