"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Practicing on Dummy Girl

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Okay, I got a quick question. A few nights ago, clubbing, I picked up this Hb6. Took her home, but wasn’t carrying protection, so we made out and cuddled. I didn’t kiss her goodbye the next morning, and she must have thought I was upset. I was just losing a bit of interest in her, because she was a bit too horny the night before. She called and apologized for being “grumpy” in the morning, and wanted to take me out next (this week). I told her she should call me on Monday night.

She called me twice today, but I didn’t pickup…once at 12pm, once at 4pm. I’ve been a bit hesitant whether or not I should mess around with her.

I’m thinking…

Advantages:
Ø Can release some sexual energy, for the time being
Ø Sharpen my kissing, touching, etc skills
Ø Meet her friends, and hence network with cuter girls?

Disadvantages:
Ø She’s not too hot…has a cute smile though, and nice petite body
Ø She gets around, is not my style of girl…is a bit wild…
Ø Need to keep her a secret because she’s just a practice girl

I’ve had one-night-stands, but I’ve never had a fvck-buddy, so I’m thinking she could be one, and other than that I could keep her around to hone my Kino and kissing skills, you know…like a dummy girl to practice on. But then again, if that’s her purpose, others would only know her as “my friend,” and nothing more. How exactly do I go about this, and is there anything else to it? Have you guys just kept a girl around to practice stuff on?

I asked a good friend of mine what he would think of using a girl as a dummy to practice on. And he said, "practicing on her would be cold, cruel, and totally inhuman,” and “if she's a wh0re, and you manipulate a wh0re, what does that make you?”

Now, would it really be that cruel as he’s saying it would be or would you guys do it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by h2o
I was just losing a bit of interest in her, because she was a bit too horny the night before.
Umm, did I just witness a role reversal in genders?

How about you actually bang this chick then we can all come back here and mental masturbate each other eh?
 

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I've been in a similar situation with a few of girls I've been seeing. They're physically attractive, very sexy but not someone I could see myself with in the long term (they're not on my mental wavelength). Unfortunately they have started to develop feelings for me and I've been faced with the difficult dilemma of letting them down.

Truth is I didn't get much sexual enjoyment or practice as I was too busy feeling guilty and coldhearted. I was even afraid to kiss them or hold them or go on dates in case it motivated them to feel emotional/romantic towards me when I knew I'd be dumping them in the near future.

Not everyone would feel the same as me, but my conscience has stopped any enjoyment or fulfilment coming of it and made me feel cheap. I've actually just started brushing them off and I feel like sh1t about it to be honest.
 

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Jesus... stop thinking over everything so much and make quick decisions. Will it kill you if you bang this girl? No, unless you don't wrap it. Will it kill you if you don't? No. You can use her without her feeling used. Just play the game man.
 

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h2o
“if she's a wh0re, and you manipulate a wh0re, what does that make you?”

ANSWER : A PIMP :)


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
h2o
“if she's a wh0re, and you manipulate a wh0re, what does that make you?”

ANSWER : A PIMP :)


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
You got to love this guy.

Ninja out
 

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If you can get yourself a girl, take her.
This will then fill you with lots of confidence in order to get many more.

Although oddly enough one girl I approached asked if I had a girlfriend already (about a year ago when I did have a GF).
I asked why and she said it was because I was so confident.
 

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Re: Re: Practicing on Dummy Girl

( . )( . ) and snintel: yeah, i think i overanalyzed it, but for the most part it was bothering my conscious

but now that you clarified it LIT, i think i'm more okay with it ;)

Jariel: i guess i'll have to try it and see how much it will bother me...yeah, the one thing that i had an issue with too is that this girl will not be a good keep for the long run

MidnightResistance: true, but you kind of feel that kind of boost after bedding her anyway, so i actually wouldn't feel much more confident for being able to keep her around...

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anyway, i think i'm gonna take a break from reading/posting here so much...it seems like i do have some game now, and spending too much time here is making me overanalyze stuff maybe ...i'll be back when i post another FR or need help or something

thanks for your replies/input though
 

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no reason not to go for her..

do whatever it is that you need/want to do with her, and leave it as that. Worst case scenario; you learn a lesson and move on.. and that is not a bad scenario by any means. :woo:
 

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Originally posted by h2o
And he said, "practicing on her would be cold, cruel, and totally inhuman,”
This is what society has brainwashed men into believing over the past 400 years so that we feel guilted into being monogamous. Don't get sucked into their mindtraps.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Talk about shooting yourself in the foot. She is calling you basically asking for sex. Whats there to analyze?

If you want sex with her have it. If not then cut the strings. Not much more too it right?
 

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yeah, well, she called me like 6 times today, and finally came over, took me out, bought me drinks and dinner....and she gave me who knows what disease

may as well kill myself now...i can't imagine if i get aids from this girl, i'll seriously kill her and then i'll kill myself

my fvcking god...read my other thread, i don't feel like explaining it twice

no wonder she was so desperate, i really don't know, as much as you guys could try and comfort me, women are just fvcking evil...evil i tell you, i will kill her
 

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look now LIT is stressing!!
 

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no lol :)

just read your back story

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82486

and i would like to point out the moral to the story

" i never eat pu$$y cause i'm too stubborn in my ways " - MA$E

and another good one

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!! Quit eating pvssy!!!! “

^^^ wisdom :)


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yea but pooosay is good for you!

and cooked to the right temprature is totally safe~!
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
no lol :)

just read your back story

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82486

and i would like to point out the moral to the story

" i never eat pu$$y cause i'm too stubborn in my ways " - MA$E

and another good one

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!! Quit eating pvssy!!!! “

^^^ wisdom :)


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good advice...yeah, i remember reading that PRL quote once...but i have no freaking clue why i didn't remember it

i guess it's one of those things where you gotta screw yourself over before you actually take it to heart...i definitely take it to heart now, and

goddamn, i'm never eating pvssy again, ever...heck, i seriously don't know if i'm gonna fvck anytime soon either
 

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Relax man if shes your gf and shes clean completley shavena nd she has a shower first its ok to lick her out. I like licking girls out as long as they fit into my regulations.

Plus you can't expect to ge head and not return the favour.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Relax man if shes your gf and shes clean completley shavena nd she has a shower first its ok to lick her out. I like licking girls out as long as they fit into my regulations.

Plus you can't expect to ge head and not return the favour.

Ninja out
she's not my gf...i've only known her since friday night...

but she was acting like she was my gf...she kept saying she wants to be...not a chance in hell though

funny thing is though, i bet she'll call me and apologize and stupid sh*t like that

nah, after this, i'm never eating pvssy ever again...i don't care about "returning the favor" i don't think she would have seriously cared either
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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