"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Practicing on Dummy Girl

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Okay, I got a quick question. A few nights ago, clubbing, I picked up this Hb6. Took her home, but wasn’t carrying protection, so we made out and cuddled. I didn’t kiss her goodbye the next morning, and she must have thought I was upset. I was just losing a bit of interest in her, because she was a bit too horny the night before. She called and apologized for being “grumpy” in the morning, and wanted to take me out next (this week). I told her she should call me on Monday night.

She called me twice today, but I didn’t pickup…once at 12pm, once at 4pm. I’ve been a bit hesitant whether or not I should mess around with her.

I’m thinking…

Advantages:
Ø Can release some sexual energy, for the time being
Ø Sharpen my kissing, touching, etc skills
Ø Meet her friends, and hence network with cuter girls?

Disadvantages:
Ø She’s not too hot…has a cute smile though, and nice petite body
Ø She gets around, is not my style of girl…is a bit wild…
Ø Need to keep her a secret because she’s just a practice girl

I’ve had one-night-stands, but I’ve never had a fvck-buddy, so I’m thinking she could be one, and other than that I could keep her around to hone my Kino and kissing skills, you know…like a dummy girl to practice on. But then again, if that’s her purpose, others would only know her as “my friend,” and nothing more. How exactly do I go about this, and is there anything else to it? Have you guys just kept a girl around to practice stuff on?

I asked a good friend of mine what he would think of using a girl as a dummy to practice on. And he said, "practicing on her would be cold, cruel, and totally inhuman,” and “if she's a wh0re, and you manipulate a wh0re, what does that make you?”

Now, would it really be that cruel as he’s saying it would be or would you guys do it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by h2o
I was just losing a bit of interest in her, because she was a bit too horny the night before.
Umm, did I just witness a role reversal in genders?

How about you actually bang this chick then we can all come back here and mental masturbate each other eh?
 

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I've been in a similar situation with a few of girls I've been seeing. They're physically attractive, very sexy but not someone I could see myself with in the long term (they're not on my mental wavelength). Unfortunately they have started to develop feelings for me and I've been faced with the difficult dilemma of letting them down.

Truth is I didn't get much sexual enjoyment or practice as I was too busy feeling guilty and coldhearted. I was even afraid to kiss them or hold them or go on dates in case it motivated them to feel emotional/romantic towards me when I knew I'd be dumping them in the near future.

Not everyone would feel the same as me, but my conscience has stopped any enjoyment or fulfilment coming of it and made me feel cheap. I've actually just started brushing them off and I feel like sh1t about it to be honest.
 

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Jesus... stop thinking over everything so much and make quick decisions. Will it kill you if you bang this girl? No, unless you don't wrap it. Will it kill you if you don't? No. You can use her without her feeling used. Just play the game man.
 

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h2o
“if she's a wh0re, and you manipulate a wh0re, what does that make you?”

ANSWER : A PIMP :)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
h2o
“if she's a wh0re, and you manipulate a wh0re, what does that make you?”

ANSWER : A PIMP :)


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
You got to love this guy.

Ninja out
 

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If you can get yourself a girl, take her.
This will then fill you with lots of confidence in order to get many more.

Although oddly enough one girl I approached asked if I had a girlfriend already (about a year ago when I did have a GF).
I asked why and she said it was because I was so confident.
 

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Re: Re: Practicing on Dummy Girl

( . )( . ) and snintel: yeah, i think i overanalyzed it, but for the most part it was bothering my conscious

but now that you clarified it LIT, i think i'm more okay with it ;)

Jariel: i guess i'll have to try it and see how much it will bother me...yeah, the one thing that i had an issue with too is that this girl will not be a good keep for the long run

MidnightResistance: true, but you kind of feel that kind of boost after bedding her anyway, so i actually wouldn't feel much more confident for being able to keep her around...

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anyway, i think i'm gonna take a break from reading/posting here so much...it seems like i do have some game now, and spending too much time here is making me overanalyze stuff maybe ...i'll be back when i post another FR or need help or something

thanks for your replies/input though
 

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no reason not to go for her..

do whatever it is that you need/want to do with her, and leave it as that. Worst case scenario; you learn a lesson and move on.. and that is not a bad scenario by any means. :woo:
 

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Originally posted by h2o
And he said, "practicing on her would be cold, cruel, and totally inhuman,”
This is what society has brainwashed men into believing over the past 400 years so that we feel guilted into being monogamous. Don't get sucked into their mindtraps.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Talk about shooting yourself in the foot. She is calling you basically asking for sex. Whats there to analyze?

If you want sex with her have it. If not then cut the strings. Not much more too it right?
 

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yeah, well, she called me like 6 times today, and finally came over, took me out, bought me drinks and dinner....and she gave me who knows what disease

may as well kill myself now...i can't imagine if i get aids from this girl, i'll seriously kill her and then i'll kill myself

my fvcking god...read my other thread, i don't feel like explaining it twice

no wonder she was so desperate, i really don't know, as much as you guys could try and comfort me, women are just fvcking evil...evil i tell you, i will kill her
 

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look now LIT is stressing!!
 

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no lol :)

just read your back story

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82486

and i would like to point out the moral to the story

" i never eat pu$$y cause i'm too stubborn in my ways " - MA$E

and another good one

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!! Quit eating pvssy!!!! “

^^^ wisdom :)


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yea but pooosay is good for you!

and cooked to the right temprature is totally safe~!
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
no lol :)

just read your back story

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82486

and i would like to point out the moral to the story

" i never eat pu$$y cause i'm too stubborn in my ways " - MA$E

and another good one

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ You guys wont eat off of a spoon at a restaurant because it has a speckle of dust on it but you readily indulge in that which is covered infinitely worse in germs, disease, and sperm!!! Quit eating pvssy!!!! “

^^^ wisdom :)


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
good advice...yeah, i remember reading that PRL quote once...but i have no freaking clue why i didn't remember it

i guess it's one of those things where you gotta screw yourself over before you actually take it to heart...i definitely take it to heart now, and

goddamn, i'm never eating pvssy again, ever...heck, i seriously don't know if i'm gonna fvck anytime soon either
 

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Relax man if shes your gf and shes clean completley shavena nd she has a shower first its ok to lick her out. I like licking girls out as long as they fit into my regulations.

Plus you can't expect to ge head and not return the favour.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Relax man if shes your gf and shes clean completley shavena nd she has a shower first its ok to lick her out. I like licking girls out as long as they fit into my regulations.

Plus you can't expect to ge head and not return the favour.

Ninja out
she's not my gf...i've only known her since friday night...

but she was acting like she was my gf...she kept saying she wants to be...not a chance in hell though

funny thing is though, i bet she'll call me and apologize and stupid sh*t like that

nah, after this, i'm never eating pvssy ever again...i don't care about "returning the favor" i don't think she would have seriously cared either
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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