"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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upandown101

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I know this may sound wrong, but I have an idea many of you should follow in order to up your dj skills. What you need to do is find a girl of each type of personality. Such as I got my smart girl, my nice girl, and my funny girl. All of you should have noticed by now how different things you say effect different personality types. By having seperate girls you will learn how to talk to each girl to make them feel the most attraction to you and therefore improve your skills greatly. Try it I know it will help you.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why would that sound wrong?
 

upandown101

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I can see how it could sound a little wrong, but im not meaning it that way. All I'm saying is that it always helps to have more than one girl liking you, and it also helps when each of those girls are different that way if you screw up with one you won't do that with the others and will still feel confident. If you didn't understand the first post and took it the wrong way then just read it again and maybe you will understand then. If you still can't then I guess your just missing out get over it and go on.
 
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