"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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upandown101

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I know this may sound wrong, but I have an idea many of you should follow in order to up your dj skills. What you need to do is find a girl of each type of personality. Such as I got my smart girl, my nice girl, and my funny girl. All of you should have noticed by now how different things you say effect different personality types. By having seperate girls you will learn how to talk to each girl to make them feel the most attraction to you and therefore improve your skills greatly. Try it I know it will help you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why would that sound wrong?
 

upandown101

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I can see how it could sound a little wrong, but im not meaning it that way. All I'm saying is that it always helps to have more than one girl liking you, and it also helps when each of those girls are different that way if you screw up with one you won't do that with the others and will still feel confident. If you didn't understand the first post and took it the wrong way then just read it again and maybe you will understand then. If you still can't then I guess your just missing out get over it and go on.
 
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