"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Practice makes natural

Kourt

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Hey guys, I've noticed that over time, dj tips/tatics have become natural for me. Basicly when you learn a new tatic, use it and eventually you will use it without even thinking about it.

For example, today I ran into a girl I had been working at the college foodplace. I talked to her for about 5 minutes before I went on my way to eat. I didnt really 'try' or put to much importance on the conversation, but now looking back on it I realize that many DJ principles have become second hand for me. I cracked C&F jokes but I wasn't like, ok nows the time for C&F. Grabbed her hand and made fun of how she had ink all over her hand from her pen, but I didnt think ok, nows time for more C&F/Kino.

So what I'm saying here is while at first you may have to think about what you need to do, and it is more awkward/unatural, eventually you can incorporate these into 'game' and then thats when you really begin to excel.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Let me add that practice does not mean mindless repetition.
 

Virtú

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Let me add that practice does not mean mindless repetition.
When is practice not mindless repetition?

Few guys here are skilled enough AND creative enough to make stuff up as they go, to work without a plan and procedures.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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