"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Practice makes natural

Kourt

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Hey guys, I've noticed that over time, dj tips/tatics have become natural for me. Basicly when you learn a new tatic, use it and eventually you will use it without even thinking about it.

For example, today I ran into a girl I had been working at the college foodplace. I talked to her for about 5 minutes before I went on my way to eat. I didnt really 'try' or put to much importance on the conversation, but now looking back on it I realize that many DJ principles have become second hand for me. I cracked C&F jokes but I wasn't like, ok nows the time for C&F. Grabbed her hand and made fun of how she had ink all over her hand from her pen, but I didnt think ok, nows time for more C&F/Kino.

So what I'm saying here is while at first you may have to think about what you need to do, and it is more awkward/unatural, eventually you can incorporate these into 'game' and then thats when you really begin to excel.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Let me add that practice does not mean mindless repetition.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Let me add that practice does not mean mindless repetition.
When is practice not mindless repetition?

Few guys here are skilled enough AND creative enough to make stuff up as they go, to work without a plan and procedures.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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