"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SeldomSeen

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RE:

Originally posted by Desdinova
To rephrase this, as soon as ANY guy shows up on the dance floor, he becomes the subject of attention, as if he was the last man on earth.

The picking for women is always slim on the dance floor. Even if there is a guy on the floor who is a great dancer, he's most likely to only choose one woman anyway. The competition is still low, and as long as you're in, you still have a wide variety of women to choose from.


This is true. Ive been dancing for 17 years since I was 22..and I swear even today when I hit the club dance floors I have women coming up to me, I have guys even say "would you dance with my girlfriend, she wants to dance with you" Women "hey can I get your number, will you teach me to dance?" Sometimes it gets annoying like when Im just standing back watching women will come up and say "why arent you dancing? come on... and Im like look Im tired and Im not feeling this song either"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You don't need to know how to dance by which I mean show off by yourself with some breakdance moves. Which I doubt impresses that many women anyways. But knowing how to move closely with a girl to the music will get you to the next level when just meeting a new girl.
wrong again....Im a bboy, and I've noticed that women like that very much, and it's a huge difference from just being able to dance, and having good sense of rythm. and notice that I only do Toprock when on the dancefloor.
but then again, breakin won't get you laid, it's your ability to escalate after that the girl has made contact(I always let the girl initiate, it make me seem LOT less desperate, and since Im a good dancer[or so I very much believe , at least, since] I dont really have a problem with having girls approach me in a club)
 

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Didn't you know that all the cool, suave guys sit in the corner and watch their gf's dance with a guy who's comfortable enough with himself to get up there and dance with her??!!?!? You just KNOW that's what girls love about their bfs when they're out at the club.
 

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Re: Re: RE:

Originally posted by Silverback82
what?


yeah guys will be out and their girl wants to dance and they dont want to dance so they ask me to dance with their girlfriend or wives even. Now most of the time its nothing but every now and then the girl starts to flirt with me and tries to make a connection with me while their boyfriends are off shooting pool with thier buddies. Sometimes the girls will slip me a number while their leaving with their man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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