Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SeldomSeen

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RE:

Originally posted by Desdinova
To rephrase this, as soon as ANY guy shows up on the dance floor, he becomes the subject of attention, as if he was the last man on earth.

The picking for women is always slim on the dance floor. Even if there is a guy on the floor who is a great dancer, he's most likely to only choose one woman anyway. The competition is still low, and as long as you're in, you still have a wide variety of women to choose from.


This is true. Ive been dancing for 17 years since I was 22..and I swear even today when I hit the club dance floors I have women coming up to me, I have guys even say "would you dance with my girlfriend, she wants to dance with you" Women "hey can I get your number, will you teach me to dance?" Sometimes it gets annoying like when Im just standing back watching women will come up and say "why arent you dancing? come on... and Im like look Im tired and Im not feeling this song either"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You don't need to know how to dance by which I mean show off by yourself with some breakdance moves. Which I doubt impresses that many women anyways. But knowing how to move closely with a girl to the music will get you to the next level when just meeting a new girl.
wrong again....Im a bboy, and I've noticed that women like that very much, and it's a huge difference from just being able to dance, and having good sense of rythm. and notice that I only do Toprock when on the dancefloor.
but then again, breakin won't get you laid, it's your ability to escalate after that the girl has made contact(I always let the girl initiate, it make me seem LOT less desperate, and since Im a good dancer[or so I very much believe , at least, since] I dont really have a problem with having girls approach me in a club)
 

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Didn't you know that all the cool, suave guys sit in the corner and watch their gf's dance with a guy who's comfortable enough with himself to get up there and dance with her??!!?!? You just KNOW that's what girls love about their bfs when they're out at the club.
 

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Re: Re: RE:

Originally posted by Silverback82
what?


yeah guys will be out and their girl wants to dance and they dont want to dance so they ask me to dance with their girlfriend or wives even. Now most of the time its nothing but every now and then the girl starts to flirt with me and tries to make a connection with me while their boyfriends are off shooting pool with thier buddies. Sometimes the girls will slip me a number while their leaving with their man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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