“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Practical, EASY, Romantic, Time-TESTED "Endearing" Style Points: Must READ

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Little things mean a LOT, when youre getting serious about someone. Of course, these things won't make her attracted to you if youre NEEDY. DO them as a show of strength.

1. Open that car door. She secretly loves this.

2. Send flowers ANONYMOUSLY. This NEVER fails to be MENTIONED!!!!! Make the little card say "from your biggest NOT so secret admirer"...or whatever. Then when she talks about it, dont ADMIT you sent them, but instead make it obvious without admitting it..........

3. Pay an individualized compliment. DO NOT remark on her looks. That would only render you as another chump, obsessed with her looks. "Youre an amazing woman. Intelligent and you can count to ten! You make my top ten list".........is something that is complimentary but not OVERLY committed. Let her know that she has IMPRESSED you .,.....so far!!!!!

4. Protect her from danger. This is easy to do in public. Take her arm and move her AWAY from traffic/whatever. Watch her melt. If it is cold, put your JACKET over her SHOULDERS WITHOUT ASKING. JUST do it.

5. If she had a stressful day, say "YOU NEED A HUG". And then give her one. Let her feel your strength. Tell her she'll be ok.

6. Be PLAYFUL. Say......"you havent been having any fun. We're going to Baskin and Robbins and Im getting you a surprise". When you get there, INSIST on ordering for her.

7. When youre driving in HER car, NOTICE something that needs fixed and then FIX IT!!!!!!! Such as replacing lights, wax, tire pressure, etc. Dont ASK,, take the charge!!!!!!

8. If you go to a nice cafe, ORDER FOR HER. Of course, ask her ahead of time what kind of food she likes, and then ORDER.

Try some of these. Be in control when you do them.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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that stuff is unbelievably good if you use it after you've gotten to know someone, and she's figuring out if youre marriage material.

Dont do it in the beginning.
 

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This will work on certain kinds of women, but be careful not to overdo it (especially the ordering for her, fixing her car, "protecting" her, etc., or you'll run the risk or being seen as a control freak). Good tips though :)
 

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I agree with them all except number 2 and 7. No girl is getting flowers or having her car fixed by me unless she's already putting out.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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