Reality is reality and perception is a variable experience of reality. The important thing is to be resilent and spring back from experiencing a harsh reality. I agree it's good to go into situations with positivity as that tends to bring you more real postivity from others. But it doesn't mean to go into things with blinders on or without real objectives. For example a stalkers reality is he can win over a celebrity no matter how much feedback is telling him he's not wanted. A person has to have a realistic pereception of reality and realize when something is a bad situation and it's time to abort. A person needs to weigh the possible good and bad and make an analysis in how they proceed.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Power of Perception
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